justinewong Posted December 29, 2013 Share Posted December 29, 2013 So recently I've posted a thread saying how I felt neglected because my best friend didn't spend as much time with me anymore. The neglection went as far as him "ditching me", "avoid me when my other friend died", and don't even contact me anymore. Anyway, His gf just left and went on holiday. Now he's talking to me, and want to hang out. Should I even bother? I want to hang out, but I'm still angry, and I have lost nearly all my trust that I have for him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author justinewong Posted December 29, 2013 Author Share Posted December 29, 2013 You can, but just know when she comes back you are second best again. This sucks but it happens as we get older. Our friends get into committed relationships and we never see them again until they need our help or die. Don't ignore him out of jealousy though, you might find brief happiness in reconnecting. I'll just ignore him. I can't stare at him without getting angry of how he treated me. Link to post Share on other sites
soph12 Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 Do you think you'll regret it later if your friendship starts to crumble? If the answer is yes, go hang out with him and focus on how much you appreciate having him in your life instead of being angry. This is my advice without having read your other posts. It sucks to be second best, but would you rather not have him in your life at all anymore? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 I would be cheerful with him -- but too busy to see him right now. Link to post Share on other sites
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