Sweetheartt Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 Idk for sure but Im getting worried that she's doing some weird **** because she keeps changing her makeup alot, disappearing w/o cause or reason & is bumping all over the states every ****ing week! This started up this yr! For ex. last week she was in 5 parts of nj. When I asked her what she's out there for she just says she working clubs. Wtf?! Idk any clubs where she can go all over town like that . Then she was in florida for a few days then nyc someplace & now back in ct somewhere else far away from where she lives since we're both from ct. She's also got tons & tons of new hot gear & shoes & gucci bags & she cant stop getting tats all over her body. I dont got any ****ing tats because I like my skin clean & my new bf loves it but w/ her she started w/ a couple tats, but now she got like 10 in 2 yrs. Can someone plz plz plz tell me is my friend in trouble? What to do? Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 What tha... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ls32ssibm Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 Well, the good news is if she's jumping states to meet Johns then she is an "escort". Hookers usually work a corner. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sweetheartt Posted March 23, 2013 Author Share Posted March 23, 2013 Well, the good news is if she's jumping states to meet Johns then she is an "escort". Hookers usually work a corner. Im thinking she might be doing something like this. Any help on what to do to stop her from acting so dumb? She just 18 & its the same friend that was dating that 40 yr old dude last yr ugh! Link to post Share on other sites
neveragain34 Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 She may not be an official hooker, but probably has older men buying her things and flying her places. Sugar daddy maybe? Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 Well, the good news is if she's jumping states to meet Johns then she is an "escort". Hookers usually work a corner. an escort is a hooker just a nicer way to put it......there is no good news with that Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sweetheartt Posted March 23, 2013 Author Share Posted March 23, 2013 an escort is a hooker just a nicer way to put it......there is no good news with that So true but Idk what to do to stop her. Last yr when she was dating that old dude he was buying her stuff alot & they lasted like a month then she got a new bf thats 20 & it seemed all good because he was closer to her age but it only last a few months & now she single again & doing stupid **** & getting lots of tats on her body & its messing her up. I just wanna know whats gone wrong w/ her? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
neveragain34 Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 Was your friend molested, abused, neglected, etc as a child? From what you've said, it sounds like a possibility and you need to help her get counseling ASAP! At 18, her current behaviors are only the beginning of many. Drugs, abortions, bad relationships, promiscuity, etc are sure to come if she doesn't stop now. Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 This girls going to be so wrecked by the time she is 30. There's nothing you can do to stop her, she's going to do what she wants....especially at 18, and with men older than her manipulating her mind (not that it's even a challenge...after all, all women are so mature for their age! didn't you know?!!), she doesn't stand a chance. I don't know if she's hooking, but they do hire women to dance in clubs...she could be stripper, or running around and being brainwashed by an older man offering and "exciting and thrilling" life with good pay...so yeah kind of a hooker there too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 Idk for sure but Im getting worried that she's doing some weird **** because she keeps changing her makeup alot, disappearing w/o cause or reason & is bumping all over the states every ****ing week! This started up this yr! For ex. last week she was in 5 parts of nj. When I asked her what she's out there for she just says she working clubs. Wtf?! Idk any clubs where she can go all over town like that . Then she was in florida for a few days then nyc someplace & now back in ct somewhere else far away from where she lives since we're both from ct. She's also got tons & tons of new hot gear & shoes & gucci bags & she cant stop getting tats all over her body. I dont got any ****ing tats because I like my skin clean & my new bf loves it but w/ her she started w/ a couple tats, but now she got like 10 in 2 yrs. Can someone plz plz plz tell me is my friend in trouble? What to do? sounds like she is free lancing , to me it might be more stripping if she is getting tattoos, possible lap dancing if she is working clubs all over.......clubs always take on fresh faces....when the face becomes not so fresh and jaded the girls move around a bit...to keep the mystery....different johns ....more money.....talk to your friend be there to support her when it goes south or something bad happens...until then there is nothing you can do ...she is hooked in.......and is the only one who can change her situation is her....she may be indebted to work it..talk to her allow her to eb honest without you judging her...be a true friend and tell her you dont agree with it but you are there for her regardless.she may have to learn the hard way............deb 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ls32ssibm Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 an escort is a hooker just a nicer way to put it......there is no good news with that Misconception. Not all escorts have sex with their clients. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 Misconception. Not all escorts have sex with their clients. You are right not all do ...but those type of escorts dont normally come back covered in tattoos....they are exclusive ......and mainly clean skinned..due to image they need to be a representation and status symbol for clientele... they are escorts without sex....its very image conscious for companionship or simply escorting to events.....plus she is working clubs............so your point is really moot on definition of escort in regards to ops post....she is getting tattoos all over her.........deb Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sweetheartt Posted March 23, 2013 Author Share Posted March 23, 2013 Was your friend molested, abused, neglected, etc as a child? From what you've said, it sounds like a possibility and you need to help her get counseling ASAP! At 18, her current behaviors are only the beginning of many. Drugs, abortions, bad relationships, promiscuity, etc are sure to come if she doesn't stop now. Idk about all that stuff but sometimes I still wonder what that old ass dude did to her when they dated last yr. She came home with marks all on her neck from hickeys I think but she didn't seem to care that much but still.... She was always boy-crazy & **** but its so much worse now. She just put on fb some new slutty looking pics & I posted on her wall to calm down & she put lol to me & kept posting. I kinda wanna sit down & just talk to her about this stuff but since I'm just a yr older than her she prob wont even listen. Link to post Share on other sites
NYC-BigKat Posted March 24, 2013 Share Posted March 24, 2013 Idk about all that stuff but sometimes I still wonder what that old ass dude did to her when they dated last yr. She came home with marks all on her neck from hickeys I think but she didn't seem to care that much but still.... She was always boy-crazy & **** but its so much worse now. She just put on fb some new slutty looking pics & I posted on her wall to calm down & she put lol to me & kept posting. I kinda wanna sit down & just talk to her about this stuff but since I'm just a yr older than her she prob wont even listen. Yup I know what u mean 'cause my age dont listen to nothing I say at all u know & it sucks . I um do think your friend got molested & that's why she went out with that older guy & is marking her skin so much. She feels like crap so maybe she wants to look like it I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
QuestionAsker Posted March 24, 2013 Share Posted March 24, 2013 Does she have a new boyfriend? Link to post Share on other sites
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