without Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 i did the most stupid thing. I really wanted to go out with a guy and after a year that he was saying he wouldn't because of some problems... I did a stupid thing and found out about is member of some site and in there he said he isn't over someone. i was really sad. so i told him. he had told me he doesnt love anyone. then he called me a scarrry stalker and he has blocked me everywhere.. I haven't slept last night sending him all messages but im blocked and i have no access to him in real life either... I really regret what I did. I never wanted him to do that... **** ... I look like a creep to him after a year ... I just wanted to know how he feels so I checked. Its like he has erased me from everywhere.. wha the hell have I done?... Link to post Share on other sites
Author without Posted August 26, 2012 Author Share Posted August 26, 2012 I just wanna cry. I can't reach him anywhere... Its like I dont exist to him. Link to post Share on other sites
meeji Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 Just wait a while and see if he changes his mind about you later. If you meet a new guy in the meantime, go for him instead. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Wait for a while, it's not what you did [though that wasn't very nice]. Link to post Share on other sites
Author without Posted September 4, 2012 Author Share Posted September 4, 2012 Wait for a while, it's not what you did [though that wasn't very nice]. I hope so. Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 I think he was always a lost cause for you in two ways. First, he wasnt into you in the first place because you couldnt take his mind off of his ex just by hanging out with him, or talking to him. Two, if he was into you, as creepy as it was, he could forgive you for stalking him somewhat, or at least not block you. He really wasnt into you if he blocked you. People wont always tell you that they arent over someone because they might feel like if they started dating you, you would feel like you have to compete with an ex. Maybe he's ashamed to still hold a torch for his ex. Either way, he didnt want you to know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author without Posted September 4, 2012 Author Share Posted September 4, 2012 I think he was always a lost cause for you in two ways. First, he wasnt into you in the first place because you couldnt take his mind off of his ex just by hanging out with him, or talking to him. Two, if he was into you, as creepy as it was, he could forgive you for stalking him somewhat, or at least not block you. He really wasnt into you if he blocked you. People wont always tell you that they arent over someone because they might feel like if they started dating you, you would feel like you have to compete with an ex. Maybe he's ashamed to still hold a torch for his ex. Either way, he didnt want you to know. At any case i hope he forgives me and doesnt hate me. I did what i could to be his friend and i know i sucked because i loved him and i had to hide it. Which i couldnt do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author without Posted September 4, 2012 Author Share Posted September 4, 2012 its more comforting to know you all think he just didnt block me because of what I did. Cuz i really am ashamed of myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Don't you already have this identical thread in a different forum? Link to post Share on other sites
Author without Posted September 5, 2012 Author Share Posted September 5, 2012 Don't you already have this identical thread in a different forum? I made one here first but no one answered at that time so i made another one. Link to post Share on other sites
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