LoveLace Posted April 3, 2007 Share Posted April 3, 2007 Since my RM apparently does't date anyone old enough to have their own place, his 22 yr-old GF has spent the night for like the last 6 nights in a row. I rarely actually see her unless its because they are crashed on the couch in the living room (cuz his daughter has to sleep in his room), I've been introduced to her once, she seems nice or whatever, but 6 nights in a row is that necessary? I already have 2 roommates in a 2 bedroom apt, I don't want another one! Apparently his GF's friend hung out with them last night, because another strange younger girl was on the couch this morning, while he and the GF are sleeping on the floor. I've already lived in a sorority house. I just think its getting rediculous. If I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't have spending the night that many times in a row. Maybe once or twice a week at most. But if I had a boyfriend, I don't think I'd be living with a guy in the 1st place. But oh well. It's raining men for me now (finally!) so I guess we'll see what he thinks of that. I feel like our friendship is becoming more distant by the day; although we are getting along; I just don't feel as close to him as I did years ago or as I did when we 1st moved in. A month ago he was hanging out with me, calling me, etc, and now suddenly its like he doesn't want me as a big part of his life much at all. I'm sure he likes this girl or whatever, but he knows that she is really too young for him (he's almost 40). I'm surprised at how much time he is spending with her because he easily gets sick of most these girls quickly. I feel like something else is going on with him, almost like he's running away from me; but I'm guilty of the same thing, so I don't know. But I have a date Thurs. that I'm excited about, so I'm doing ok for now. Unless I meet some spectacular guy, I'll keep wishing my RM was really mine. Link to post Share on other sites
Porn_Guy Posted April 3, 2007 Share Posted April 3, 2007 its painfully obvious that these living arrangements are working, you need to move out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveLace Posted April 3, 2007 Author Share Posted April 3, 2007 Yes pornguy well I'm legally bound to a lease until August 1, and I've suggested he get another roommate to take my place in case I decide to move sooner, but he's not putting any effort into that. Despite of everything we are too good of friends and I would never just move out on him and leave him with the financial burden. He wouldn't do it to me, either. Besides, I don't know when I'd find the time to move, being a full time employee and full-time student as well. And I'm not seeking advice on weather or not to move out or what people think of the living arrangment. If anything I guess I'm just ranting so maybe I should move it to that section! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveLace Posted April 3, 2007 Author Share Posted April 3, 2007 "Ridiculous" ah yes thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
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