sickofeverything Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 (This is going to be a long one) I met this *friend* online about 3 years ago. We clicked because we had the same views on parenthood. We met on a message board and decided to have a few playgroups with the kids and things evolved from there. She was very opinionated on the message board. And over time she was getting worse. When I didn't agree with her she would msn me and demand to know why my stance was the opposite. And she had to be right 99.9% of the time. She belittled people and was very ver condesending. She kept saying she was allowed to be like that because her childhood was so bad. And now she was more out spoken. Not even putting any regards into other peoples feelings. So that became a major red light for me. And then she would talk nonstop about her shopping adventures and what she was going to buy or do to her house. All the while getting payday loans to buy groceries all the time. She eventually left the board because people were icy towards her. Now I find out she is also a liar. And stalks me on the net. And likes to be me. LOL Seriously I bought these awesome glasses. Looked around for months for something unique. She sees them and then get knock offs on ebay after seeing me. And a whole other bunch of crap. I can't take it anymore. She thinks she is an expert in every f'in field known to man. Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Ok...nice vent...but are you asking any questions? Really it all boils down to, if you don't like being with her even as a friend, then don't! Link to post Share on other sites
sickofeverything Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 Yeah I really needed to vent. I do have questions though. How do I get rid of her? Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 lol simple. Tell her straight to stop contacting you and you do same. Link to post Share on other sites
sickofeverything Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 It's hard though because I don't want to hurt her feelings. I care about people too much. But this friendship is really toxic so now I have to start caring about me. Right? Right! I'm just too nice. Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 Yep asked and answered...she's the one pushing you away so don't worry about her feelings..obviously she doesn't about yours Link to post Share on other sites
goodfriendeva Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 sad as it is.. but with her strong attitude.. your def going to have to have a backbone and just tell her straight up bluntly i dont want to be your friend.. and this is why. and if she cant stop coming around or harassing you then its time to get the cops invovled.. because that is what she is doing if she stalking you thru the net. Link to post Share on other sites
PandorasBox Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 If she is stalking you on the net, then block her. Block her from emailing you and Instant messaging you. Don't talk with her anymore, just drop the whole thing with her. It sounds like a toxic situation that needs to be left alone. Link to post Share on other sites
sickofeverything Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 Well , I blocked her yesterday. With no explanation on my part. It feels good though like a weight has been lifted. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 Good for you, though you might want to send her a 'good bye' e-mail or something....I mean it's not that nice to break up with someone and not say anything... and also who knows what she'll think and she could stalk you even more not knowing why you're not online anymore.. Link to post Share on other sites
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