Ruby Slippers Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 Well, this is a new one. A guy on a dating site asked me if I've modeled and offered money to do a photo shoot. He says the photos will be for his private portfolio he only shows to prospective clients and I can wear whatever I like. Is he trying to gather spank bank material or what? Link to post Share on other sites
JuneL Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 Well, this is a new one. A guy on a dating site asked me if I've modeled and offered money to do a photo shoot. He says the photos will be for his private portfolio he only shows to prospective clients and I can wear whatever I like. Is he trying to gather spank bank material or what? Honestly? I think he knows you'd feel flattered with such an offer. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 Honestly? I think he knows you'd feel flattered with such an offer. He knows that 108438 other women on dating sites who present themselves in a specific kind of way are also likely to be flattered by such an offer. IMO it's fairly easy to predict. If he casts a wide enough net he's likely to get some takers. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 Is he trying to gather spank bank material or what? Or worse. Just creating scenarios from recent headlines - - sexual assault - hidden camera in dressing room - identity theft etc., etc., etc. Bad idea... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JuneL Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 He knows that 108438 other women on dating sites who present themselves in a specific kind of way are also likely to be flattered by such an offer. IMO it's fairly easy to predict. If he casts a wide enough net he's likely to get some takers. You said it better than I did! Many women would block this creep the moment they saw his creepy message. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ruby Slippers Posted November 15, 2018 Author Share Posted November 15, 2018 No need for the catty comments. I'm not "flattered", find it bizarre and wondering if others have encountered similar. Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 No need for the catty comments. I'm not "flattered", find it bizarre and wondering if others have encountered similar. It's a typical creeper move. Common. You were targeted for a reason beyond what you look like, and it worked - it triggered you to engage. Why? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ruby Slippers Posted November 15, 2018 Author Share Posted November 15, 2018 I didn't engage. He stated his goal and conditions outright. I read his weird message and posted this thread. Y'all must have some issues to be so needlessly judgmental with a stranger asking a question on a forum. Thanks to Mr. Lucky for the one helpful reply. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Shining One Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 You should ask to see his portfolio. Odds are he's not legitimate though. All of the photographers I know don't have to ask women to model for them... they certainly don't have to pay them. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 he's a creep, stay away Link to post Share on other sites
brigit87 Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 I didn't engage. He stated his goal and conditions outright. I read his weird message and posted this thread. Y'all must have some issues to be so needlessly judgmental with a stranger asking a question on a forum. Thanks to Mr. Lucky for the one helpful reply. I was never on a dating site but I had a picture up a couple of years ago on another site. I was offered model representation LOL. Yeah. Ok. I was flattered and made a similar thread to the one you made and got similar responses. So what to make of this? Guy is sleazy and hopes you'll be flattered enough to provide photos. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 report him to the dating site.. creeper... Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 Closed per thread starter request. Thanks for your responses! Link to post Share on other sites
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