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Old 10th July 2016, 9:58 AM   #16
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Originally Posted by Kristine View Post
He's so in love with me, etc.
Has he ever asked you on a proper date?

Have you ever interacted with him outside of work on a serious level that doesn't involve him play-acting?
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Old 30th July 2016, 7:27 PM   #17
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Realization about trainer

I was basically the latest game at work. Problem is he's so linked in for all I know he's best friends with the owner. Not an improbable thought really. Since I do like my job and I am doing a good job, I am going to go about my business and put my fantasy to rest. Anything he does or doesn't do I need to detach.

I am an open book type, also gullible ie easily played. No matter how I try to fight it the truth remains. Easily played. Well it may take a while but I finally caught on.
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Old 3rd August 2016, 3:50 PM   #18
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have you considered journaling? you say that you're easily played, but that takes afterthought and self-knowledge to know. So maybe once you separate yourself from a situation you can write it down and think about it? kinda like giving yourself lessons?
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Old 3rd August 2016, 5:44 PM   #19
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^ I agree with the journaling idea. I always journaled and was able to go back and see patterns of things I'd do that made things fall apart.
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