petal28 Posted December 25, 2011 Share Posted December 25, 2011 As the title says, a work colleague has offered to set me up with her brother as this colleague has heard from another colleague that i'm "on the market and looking". Only thing is i don't want to be set up with her brother because i would like to settle down with a man who is from the same culture as myself (colleague's brother is not). I'm not sure what i should say to my colleague to let her know that i don't want to be set up but not offend her. I'm also worried that my colleague might hold it against me as i will be applying for a work promotion later on and the colleague might have something to do with that process. How can i let my colleague know in a diplomatic way (without lying) that i'm not interested? Link to post Share on other sites
fltc Posted December 26, 2011 Share Posted December 26, 2011 "I would like to settle down with a man who is from the same culture as myself" is what you need to tell her. Link to post Share on other sites
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