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Old 10th March 2019, 4:28 PM   #16
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Yeah see things like that would happen with us too she'd bring in the hole punch, or l would, just supposing it was that. But we wouldn't be trying to send for each other like you did that time, with us we'd be just more thinking say , where's that damn hole punch , and one would walk in with it so to speak.
But you see , didn't you wonder why you had this thing with him , and yet you weren't to be together ? why even find this incredible thing with someone, yet not be together ?

But funny ronnie , yaknow , it's not the science of it all l cared about , l actually don't like science trying to prove love or chemicals or connections or bla bla to me all that's a no brainer and way way too special to have any place in something like science.
With us , the way we met , the timing , both of our marriage break ups and then not only all these bizarre things between us, but an insane attraction we both knew about before we even sent our pics , met in a divorce forum we were both in, the way we got along and felt each other, the whole thing.
There was much much more stuff.
But the thing as to why , what l mean is we just couldn't make it work , yet it all happened and was as if we were just meant to be she was sent to me and me to her. l'd even thought my parents may have done it , both had passed a few years earlier.
But why , if we couldn't even be together in the end anyway , yaknow.
She found a lot of writings about all kinds of this stuff some of it 1000s of years old .
Even in ancient times the believed and wrote about twin souls for example.
My biggest fear since with us is that we'll reconnect sometime later, give into it. In 10 years time or when we're both old, and we;d have just wasted all these years and the life we could've had together .

l do feel one thing , that is was the mistake of our lives that we didn't find a way to be together.

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Old 10th March 2019, 5:17 PM   #17
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Listen, I feel you. Now me and the ex couldn't be together because he wanted kids and I wasn't budging from my great career and wasn't domestic at that time. But then also the big hurt from the careless thing he did ,and then that wasn't the end of it. He hurt me again about my career, long story.

I stayed away from him entirely really mad at him for 10 years, but it was hurting me, not him, and now we keep in touch but only occasionally see each other. He's married, and that's fine. I do not think I could live his lifestyle still, but for different reasons now.

But the old flame, the one I had what seemed like past-life visions about and knew when something happened to him, now he's not thinking about me at all, but I just think it's a connection from a past life now and accept it. Never had so many signs and freakish things as with him. And we were never boyfriend/girlfriend and never hung out except out at clubs or overrnight, but nonetheless I know he had some connection to me too because he would tell me stuff he doesn't tell anyone. It makes no sense. But he's still a thrilling chapter from my life. He even did this one thing that was like from a different time: He would always kiss my hand when we saw each other. And that started a couple years after when I first met him and started having the vision type things. It was like some part of him knew.

It is frustrating. You know what I think Chili? I think we have a physical world and a spirit world and these people are in both but are more sustainable in our spirit world than in the harsh light of day.
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Old 10th March 2019, 5:22 PM   #18
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But funny ronnie , yaknow , it's not the science of it all l cared about , l actually don't like science trying to prove love <snip> way too special to have any place in something like science.
Ah, okay...if I'm reading you right, you'd rather have it be all 'woo-woo'; magic or 'miracles', and mysterious agents and forces at work, and 'Fate' and 'Destiny'.

All the stuff that traditional Christians 'accept on faith', and against which agnostics resist, and which atheists abhor.

The concept of 'Twin Souls' or 'Twin Flames' very much has its roots in even more ancient spiritual/religious teachings, which, in any case you have said you prefer over science.
Thus, this article might be of interest, A non-linear view of Twin Flames; and, if it feels right for you, you can search the site for other related articles.
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Old 10th March 2019, 5:57 PM   #19
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So you don't think it would've worked anyway then paragh ? Sorry to hear he'd hurt you that way.
But it makes it even more annoying to me then , so why the Gods even present you to each other then , for just a teaser , are they having a joke on us or what.
So you would've had a completely different life then , if you did go with him.
With mine l know how it sounds but l honestly did wonder if my parents sent her to me. It was the lowest point in my life beforehand.
lf they did they'll be pissed off with that we didn't make it work.

Weird how there was the family thing for you two.
You know what eventually stopped us, her 2 cats.
Yep , 2 bloody cats. She worked in the airlines and our flights were across the world and she'd seen many pets lost on trips like that.
l couldn't ask her to risk it , even though l felt like slipping the cats a mickey and then that'd be that . No more cats to worry about , there. But l couldn't do that they were too special too her and had helped her through her divorce.
Well , they're both still only 7 now, so it'll be a long wait.

You might hear from him divorced later , and l might hear from her when the damn cats croke right.
How come you never got together with the other one paragh? Get the feeling that might've been one of those silly blocking, fear, situations where you should've just been together.
He felt it kissing your hand like that, he probably had no idea where that came from.

l drew a roman soldier one day and sent it too her. She told me she'd had a dream 2weeks before that she was a roman soldier. l mean , you know. We had so many weird things like him kissing your hand.

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Old 10th March 2019, 6:04 PM   #20
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The concept of 'Twin Souls' or 'Twin Flames' very much has its roots in even more ancient spiritual/religious teachings, which, in any case you have said you prefer over science.
Thus, this article might be of interest, A non-linear view of Twin Flames; and, if it feels right for you, you can search the site for other related articles.



Thanks for that ronnie l'll check it out.
But ahh funny , but nah it's not that l'd rather anything , l just think science has no place in this stuff. You know , trying to scientifically prove love and emotions and chemicals and bla bla, makes me kinda sick tbh.
Although l shouldn't even be talking about it all now anyway , we're suppose to be moved on.

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Old 10th March 2019, 6:15 PM   #21
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, trying to scientifically prove love and emotions and chemicals and bla bla, makes me kinda sick tbh.
Well...sure. But. What if you only right now *think* that you're trying to prove 'love and emotions', (chemicals are CLEARLY scientific!)?
What if what happened to you had/has nothing at all to do with with 'love and emotions', or, at least, not exclusively?

And, if it wasn't 'science' or should not be able to be proven 'scientifically', then was it God? Religion? Spirituality? How many options do you see that you have, to try to explain it, outside of science?
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Old 10th March 2019, 6:15 PM   #22
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^ Chili, answering what you said in the first paragraph. I guess with the ex, it was a connection because we were on very similar career paths. Our paths crisscrossed for years because of career. So I used to see it as the husband I was supposed to have, for a little while, subconsciously, mostly, but then one day I realized I've always been on my own path and that I'm doing what is just more me. Our connection was at first we had the same favorite and little known, at the time, band, then we were just on parallel career paths. So we did have a path in the real world and still do. Now we like to talk about, still, music, and also gossip about people we have known from the past, because we both miss the old record business world and record store world and all those adventures we both had both together and separately, and it's kind of like two old high school football buddies getting together to relive memories -- and that's perfectly fine with me now.

Well, on the hand kisser, God knows I tried, but here's the thing. This guy was way out of my league lookswise. I was a little hippie chick with a flat chest at the time. He wasn't shallow about looks though. His couple of women I did see, neither was really what you'd call hot, but he had a type, which was kind of like his mom, I think, passive, sweet -- and that wasn't me. I was kind of an explorer like him. And the physical real world effect he had on me is he was the first person I met who totally recreated himself, and I was destined to do that myself. He just became who he wanted to be. He had an image to maintain, all that. I loved that. I told him all this after we were both getting old. He liked that. He had a weird childhood, an immune disease, not expected to live, a weak boy. This is in the 50s/60s. It was sink or swim. He unexpectedly lived and turned into an excellent specimen and all of a sudden he had this beautiful body and face and hair and didn't have the strength to go with it, so he, as they say today, did extra and morphed into who he wanted to be.

He never really settled down. He did ask me once if I'd ever want to live in Saudi Arabia (he would work all over the world), and I said, Nah, 140 degree weather wasn't for me, and wasn't comfortable as a woman to be there.

Our paths weren't the same, but our adventurous spirits were similar and how we both recreated ourselves.

That is such an eerie story about the drawing. I totally believe it. You just had that connection. I recorded my dreams for 7 years, so I take all that seriously. Have you ever read Carl Jung "Memories, Dreams, Reflections"? He talks about synchronicity and how his life was full of what they now call Jungian events. Now, his synchronicity speil gets too complicated for me, but it's still a fascinating book for those type of events that happen.

It's too bad about the cats, but that's where her heart was. I put my pets first too. But like you, I find it puzzling and frustrating when all signs point to this amazing connection but then you can't find a way to make it work in the physical plane.
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Old 11th March 2019, 4:56 PM   #23
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Well...sure. But. What if you only right now *think* that you're trying to prove 'love and emotions', (chemicals are CLEARLY scientific!)?
What if what happened to you had/has nothing at all to do with with 'love and emotions', or, at least, not exclusively?

And, if it wasn't 'science' or should not be able to be proven 'scientifically', then was it God? Religion? Spirituality? How many options do you see that you have, to try to explain it, outside of science?



Well thing is , what l meant in why and how could it happen , wasn't as much about this thing between us , that can happen in extreme when the thing between you is extreme .
Once or twice in life , anyone may meet this someone where the connection is extreme.
We meet people on all kinds of levels through life that's only natural.
Admittedly the way met was also very freaky but that's gonna happen too especially now days with the internet .
The part l don't get , is more so why did it happen if it just didn't work out anyway, what was the point.
Well , it did save us both from where we'd both just been and her cats saved her too.
But was that the only reason we met but only to then go on our way anyway. Nope, can't see it , that doesn't make sense. Really , meeting any happy fun fling could've done that for us, it didn't have to be extreme.

l think it happened because it was literally a gift and second chance and we were meant to make it work.
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^ Chili, answering what you said in the first paragraph. I guess with the ex, it was a connection because we were on very similar career paths. Our paths crisscrossed for years because of career. So I used to see it as the husband I was supposed to have, for a little while, subconsciously, mostly, but then one day I realized I've always been on my own path and that I'm doing what is just more me. Our connection was at first we had the same favorite and little known, at the time, band, then we were just on parallel career paths. So we did have a path in the real world and still do. Now we like to talk about, still, music, and also gossip about people we have known from the past, because we both miss the old record business world and record store world and all those adventures we both had both together and separately, and it's kind of like two old high school football buddies getting together to relive memories -- and that's perfectly fine with me now. {snip}



Yeah right .
Last we talked it was just sad , that this thing could just end up like your football buddy type thing. That certainly was not the way is was meant to end up between us and we just stopped talking . l know why and l think if we're not gonna be together then that's the only way it can be.
l get his image thing , l was in the arts for a long time and the image and lifestyle lead of the artist was always a thing .
l was glad to get out of it in the end and back to just being anyone else on the street so to speak. Have heard some rock stars talk about all that too , like Bono, few others. Felt they couldn't be the image.

Yeah the drawing thing you know l mean l get it l get how it use to happen , it was just like everything else , we we just in each others heads, even from the other side of the world when we weren't together.
But that soldier l'd never ever had any inclination to do and we worked out the picture came into my head two days after she her dream and l did it about a week after and showed her 2 wks after.
We did a lot of drawings from each others head.
Thanks for the name l'll take a look. Although if it was too deep for you then it'll def' be too into it for me , but l'll skim haha.

Wonder what life would've been if you did go to Saudi , it could've turned into anything , hot as hell that's for sure haha.

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I had a couple of minor psychic events: a friend in a fight, an ex in a car accident. I just saw it and they told me that was exactly how it happened. But the biggest one was the night my ex died. I had a dream I ran into him and he gave me a hug. Two days later, I found out he died in his sleep the night of my dream. We always had a psychic connection and I have no doubt he stopped to give me a hug on his way to the other side.

On another occasion, I was driving on a dark, scary road I hated. Then, one time I looked in the rearview mirror and saw my dead Grandfather. I was never scared again. I don't know about past lives. I'm a person of faith, but I don't believe God is a benevolent elderly man in the sky or the devil is a monster with a pitch fork. They are positive and negative energy. People are also energy. And science tells us energy never dies. It just changes forms.

So, I have no doubt your ex could be communicating to you from the beyond. I do, however, find it hard to believe it's your responsibility to help him to the other side. When my favorite cousin died @44, I researched experiences of people who had flat lines and come back obsessively for weeks. With a few exceptions, there was the white light at the end of the tunnel with dead loved ones telling them it wasn't their time. They had to go back. And a lot of people didn't recognize family members until they came back and were told about them. So it wasn't memories. I think he had or has a time to go.

I believe you have a psychic connection. But again, I don't think it's on you to get him there. Did I read it wrong or do you not even know he's passed? I'd find out. If he is and you believe you need to help him cross, psychic Sylvia Browne says to light a white candle and tell him to go into the light. If he's alive, he could just be sending you vibes. My ex and I did that to. Hope this helps.

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Yikes , l'd hardly call those minor events .
lt might be lucky you have your faith or that kinda stuff could really shake you up.
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YoungestDaughter, you have very good abilities.

Yeah, on mine, because the last event was when he actually got shot and his life passed before him, I was afraid (and he's old now) that that is what it meant. When I went to check, I just think I was picking up on him because he finally published his book I helped him edit many years ago. So I do think it was just vibes. Still doesn't explain my connection to him. But I've always had it. And it seems one-sided, but some spirit must be making sure I get the messages because I am pretty sure he is not.
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yes i have and unfortunately the last time i felt that connection...nothing came of it....the other spirutal connections i have had are close friends and family...all the way spiritual to premonitions in dreams which came true...

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Yeah. There's got to be some reason for that though. Truth is he was an influence in my life, whether he wanted to be or not, and when we caught up 25 years later, I told him that. What man doesn't like admiration. For him, being admired for something more than his looks was always something he needed.

I don't know if I served any purpose in his life, but he served a purpose in mine.
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To me it is strange that it seems basically one sided, wouldn't have thought it could work like that.

l think he liked you in a very very special way if nothing else , like no one else. You know , we can like all kinds of people through life in all kinds of ways.
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