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I hang out on a forum for Webmasters of Adults Only (porn) sites, as I run a few small sites as a hobby.

 

I saw this thread on the forum and was wondering if any LS posters believe this tripe:

 

My daughter is 10 months old. She was born with congenital cataracts and has very poor vision. She was practically blind until she was 4 months old when they did the first surgery.

 

One day a lady at work found out that I sold porn online and she asked me if I ever thought that the reason she was born with cataracts and has very poor vision is because I sold porn online. Because of the things I put out there for people to see.

 

My girlfriends fathers girlfriend said the same **** to her tonight.

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I think some people feel very comfortable spouting ignorant crap like that, rather than going the extra mile by showing empathy/sympathy for the person in need – it's much easier for them to be judgmental than flat-out concerned, or make a double-edged remark to let someone know their dislike of a situation that "led" to another person's affliction.

 

I think they're jackasses who choose to veer far, far away from what He represents if they tout themselves as God-loving people. Bless their hearts ...

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people have always used religion as an excuse to be really terrible to each other. Most people should not speak the first several thoughts that come to them.

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I hang out on a forum for Webmasters of Adults Only (porn) sites, as I run a few small sites as a hobby.

 

I saw this thread on the forum and was wondering if any LS posters believe this tripe:

 

OMG. I just read that thread yesterday. I also post on that same webmaster forum... GF..... I'll leave off the last initial but yea, I read that one daily. I also work as a full-time webmaster.

 

I used to post there quite frequently but I was not getting along with some people in particular on there so I changed nicks and rarely post there anymore... I used to post all my personal/relationship problems on there but it seems much more suitable for this forum...

 

I cannot believe there is someone from that board on Loveshack as well. lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

What is your nickname on there? I do not post there under Cutegirl btw...

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Ezekiel

18:19 "But you ask, 'Why shouldn't the son suffer because of his father's sins?' The answer is that the son did what was right and good. He kept my laws and followed them carefully, and so he will certainly live.

18:20 (*)It is the one who sins who will die. A son is not to suffer because of his father's sins, nor a father because of the sins of his son. Good people will be rewarded for doing good, and evil people will suffer for the evil they do.

18:21 "If someone evil stops sinning and keeps my laws, if he does what is right and good, he will not die; he will certainly live.

18:22 All his sins will be forgiven, and he will live, because he did what is right.

18:23 Do you think I enjoy seeing evil people die?" asks the Sovereign LORD. "No, I would rather see them repent and live.

18:24 "But if a righteous person stops doing good and starts doing all the evil, disgusting things that evil people do, will he go on living? No! None of the good he did will be remembered. He will die because of his unfaithfulness and his sins.

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Religion preys on the weak and desperate so she would say that, wouldn't she?

Churches are packed full with physically and mentally retarded people, apparently faith did them a lot of justice.

Furthermore a lot of people in the adult industry have had strict religeous upbringing.

 

Like my mother used to tell me from an early age: "It is better for a man to watch porn or to go to prostitutes, than taking advantage of some child or raping some woman in the bushes."

 

I think the adult industry did a lot of good for the, by religion sex-depraved, messed-up people.

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Is it worth for? satisfy lust in a short time here on earth, and suffer eternal burning in hell?:eek:

 

Tell me, is god so cruel that he would separate a man and woman in the afterlife after 60 years of love and marriage, only because one was religious and the other wasn't?

 

The bible clearly states that god will judge over your soul and that judging others will not be in your advantage.

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Tell me, is god so cruel that he would separate a man and woman in the afterlife after 60 years of love and marriage, only because one was religious and the other wasn't?

 

The bible clearly states that god will judge over your soul and that judging others will not be in your advantage.

 

No Dutchguy.

 

God loves you, cares about you, wants to help you and be your friend.

 

But, if you don't do what he says, he will condem you to eternal torture.

 

In short, he's a schoolyard bully who will punch you if you don't play his game.

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In case my attempt at sarcasm was unclear, I find the suggestion that God or any force in the universe would visit the supposed "sins" of the father on his child horrible, unfair and cruel. If there is a God, I believe He would not impose hardship on the innocent to punish another.

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IT is a crock...do you masterbate? Are you blind? I would report the woman to her boss.

 

On another Off topic note.....do you make any decent money off those sites? ALways wondered!

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No Dutchguy.

 

God loves you, cares about you, wants to help you and be your friend.

 

But, if you don't do what he says, he will condem you to eternal torture.

 

In short, he's a schoolyard bully who will punch you if you don't play his game.

If you don't play God's rules, you are hurting other people, which God doesn't like. God wants to protect good brokenheart needy people from bad guys. God's commandments are full of compassion, wisdom, loving and kindness. what kind of people don't like them?

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Tell me, is god so cruel that he would separate a man and woman in the afterlife after 60 years of love and marriage, only because one was religious and the other wasn't?

 

The bible clearly states that god will judge over your soul and that judging others will not be in your advantage.

I don't know. If one partner loves God, another would become to love God at some point. If two partner love each other so much, it isn't possible another partner seperate from God because God is love.

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The bible clearly states that god will judge over your soul and that judging others will not be in your advantage.

I quote God's words here. The judgement come to the viewer according his own conscience.

 

You see, for example, God's commandment "don't commit adultery", a person who never commit this will not think of this comment is judging him; but another person who do adultery all the time, he would feel offended by this comment.

 

God's words are mirror to your heart.

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God wants to protect good brokenheart needy people from bad guys.

Why doesn't this happen then? The world is full of abusive relationships, and just as many occur within the domain of Christendom. Why isn't the will of an all powerful being having any apparent effect?

 

Cheers,

D.

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:mad:Is this a thread on religion?

The Original Poster was wondering about the statements made to her concerning her daughter's blindness and her selling of porn.

This is crock! People who are devout and follow the bible also despair in illness. Come on now and get back to answer the original question.

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If you don't play God's rules, you are hurting other people, which God doesn't like. God wants to protect good brokenheart needy people from bad guys. God's commandments are full of compassion, wisdom, loving and kindness. what kind of people don't like them?

 

If I don't play by gods rules I'm hurting people?

 

If I break the 4th Commandment by not keeping the Sabbath day holy, I would go to hell. Nobody is getting hurt, but I still burn in hell forever.

 

If god exists, he's as caring and wise as an overgrown kid with a magnifying glass.

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:mad:Is this a thread on religion?

The Original Poster was wondering about the statements made to her concerning her daughter's blindness and her selling of porn.

This is crock! People who are devout and follow the bible also despair in illness. Come on now and get back to answer the original question.

Actually, I think it is religion based and relevant. If the woman believes in karma from Buddhism and Hinduism or "what you sow you shall also reap" from the Bible, then it's directly relevant. People find the idea that their actions having consequences such as this little girl's blindness reprehensible. I find it perfectly logical.

 

I believe (and the Buddha teaches) that we are born over and over again and whatever deeds we committed carry over to the next life. Perhaps this little girl's karma was such that she was born this way. There's really no way to know, but it at least answers the question of why she was born this way. It's better than the alternative of "God willed it to be so" as a willing participant in the suffering. Because even though he supposedly has the power to change it, he refuses to do so.

 

I would rather be the judge of my own self than have a God decide for me.

 

Peace...

 

Fa Chan

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I hang out on a forum for Webmasters of Adults Only (porn) sites, as I run a few small sites as a hobby.

 

I saw this thread on the forum and was wondering if any LS posters believe this tripe:

 

:eek:

 

In response to the question.

 

Not on your nelly.

If someone said that to me I would have to physically restrain myself from giving them a knuckle sandwich.

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Just for having no understanding whatsoever of cause and effect? Try modify your rage into pity: instead of detesting people who spout such ignorance, try to think about how their life must be to have to resort to believing such nonsense. They were probably indoctrinated into their beliefs from early childhood, and as such they have had to live with it ever since. Or they may have faced terrible hardship and desperation that forced them to look to religion for solace. Instead of feeling anger, feel sadness for them for whatever in their lives has sent them down that path and brought them to this moment.

 

Now, pity can be condescending so it's not preferrable to stop there (but it's still better than hostility). Ultimately the aim is to see everybody with empathy, especially those who would normally upset you the most. The people we call "jerks" and the like are just those who have strayed (or been pushed) off the path the most, and need to be guided back rather than ostracised.

 

Cheers,

D.

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Oh come on.

 

As if i would seriously punch someone.

 

There is no way I would risk my clean criminal record just because of the ridiculous ignorance of others.

 

Is it "take everything everyone says SOOO literally day" today or what? :rolleyes:

 

 

Yes, I would be angry that someone would say such a thing to me.

 

But what would be the point of trying to change their opinion?

Most people who have views like that have the views set in stone, otherwise THEY would think before they said such things.

 

I would feel pity towards them for having such an obtuse view of life that their "wisdom" was insulting towards others children.

 

I MAY try to point out to them that the statement was not only hurtful, but untrue- to what avail?

 

The message wouldn't get across anyway....

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I didn't make any mention of violence; I said that anger is not the best way to respond.

 

How can you respond with anger and simultaneous pity though? I'm not sure how that works.

 

Cheers,

D.

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You can be angry at someone and feel pity towards them at the same time.

 

I can't believe that you are trying to excuse such rude behaviour from someone on the grounds that they may have been facing terrible hardship and sought religion as solace.

 

OK, fine, they may have certain beliefs for whatever reason, but where I come from, and where I live, it is considered very bad manners to impart your religious beliefs on someone in such a manner that is actually insulting to another person or their children.

 

Maybe it is different in the US, but here in the UK, saying such a thing as described in the OP would be considered to be the epitome of rudeness regardless of the circumstances the speaker thought gave them the right to say it.

 

I am all for freedom of speech, but there are occasions when tact should be exercised, and this is one of them.

 

Manners go a long long way, and as hypocritical as this may sound given my first post regarding a "knuckle sandwich", I think that many overzealous people think that their opinions somehow fall outside the realm of simple politeness.

 

The lady described in the OP should have thought before she opened her mouth.

Simple as that.

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I am just trying to offer a way you might be able to react to somebody with a more constructive emotion than anger or hostility, such as compassion and understanding. That is all.

 

Obviously you'd rather be angry.

 

Cheers,

D.

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