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When you meet friends well people at first does it take you some time to get comfortable with them?

 

I think if a girl has the same sense of humour as I do its easier to get more comfortable ?

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I have a hard time making friends especially with women. It takes a long time for me to open up to people. Usually what happens I get the "She's stuck up".

 

Guys are easier because I tend to have more in common with them. So I think it's easier if you have something in common. Makes it easier to make conversations.

 

I have to tell you Britt I love your avatar. You have the greatest smile!

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Yes, a shared sense of humour is vital in the begginning of a friendship. Humans use humour to cover uncomfortable encounters. These encounters can be made even more uncomfortable in the presence of someone who doesn't find your joke as amusing as you do :p Initial conversations are usually based on light-hearted matters, so humour is an imperative shared aspect.

 

Most of my friendships have started through shared interests. Most of the men I befriend are journos, cameramen, editors, prodction assistants etc. as females journos are vying for the same jobs, we don't tend to get a long with the same sincerity.

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awww Thanks Pixie!!! thats sweet! Yes your right but I can open up so much more when I realise this person has a sense of humour like I do if not than yes it just makes it more uncomfortable. I can easily have conversations but I always add a little bit of humour. I guess some people are just different. I've been hanging out with this friend from work this is the second time I have hung out with her and we have the same interesets just I can tell our personalitys don't mix together. When you are starting to grow up ( I am 18 ) it becomes harder to meet ffriends, I tend to get more nervous for things now? Two Years ago I woulden't think twice. Guess its a part of growing up:)

 

I can easily relate to guys more some girls just think Im weird or gross haha but for the most part I rather hang with the ladies

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I'm going to get philisophical here but what is a friend really. could some one define it for me. How many level's of friendship exist. Is there such a thing as a casual friend you know the kind your not that seriouse about being friends with...

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When you meet friends well people at first does it take you some time to get comfortable with them?

 

For me, it takes me a long time to get comfortable with anyone. Even the people at my church, that I think I know pretty well. But I'm very much a stick to myself type of guy. Some of my life experiences have led me to swear by the statement; "The more I get to know people, the more I like my cat!"

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