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My husband is a sex addict and has been trying to attend a group since mid November. There are a few in our city (SA, SAA, and SLAA) but for one reason or another he isn't able to go to many of them. One that works well is Wed evenings at 7 pm.

 

The first week he went, everything was fine, except no one offered him a phone number like they usually do. The next week he shows up, no one else is there. He waits a half hour and comes home. Emails them and finds out they don't meet on the 3rd wed. Fine. goes the next week, only one guy is there. Gets his phone#. We're at Nov 24 now. Dec 1 he goes, fine, then Dec 8 no one is there again. Dec 15 is the third Wed. Dec 22 he goes, no one shows up AGAIN. Dec 29 he doesn't bother to go because he called and emailed and no one has replied to him to let him know what's going on.

 

So now we're at today and he is going to go and see if anyone shows up. He wants to go to THIS group because he likes that there aren't a lot of people, the time works well, etc. His next option is 8 am Saturday morning which is inconvenient for both of us for a variety of reasons.

 

Has anyone ever run into a problem like this with any of the 12 step programs? If so what did you do about it?

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