Sarah1609 Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 2 weeks ago I went to the beach with my friends to celebrate my birthday, I almost never drink alcohol but I though that maybe that was an special occasion so I drank and i started to feel so bad that I went to the room to sleep before my friends (we were staying in a hotel) the only thing I remember was that i passed out in my bed and then when I regained consciousness a little there was a man that was also staying in the hotel (i spoke only 5 minutes with him that day because he approached me when I was in the pool during the morning and i only knew his first name). I felt petrified, he left and then i started crying and i tell my friends. They convinced me to reported to the police and the hotel gave his personal information to the police. That was 2 weeks ago and yesterday I received a friend request from him on Facebook, I do not understand, I reported him with the police, he is sued by me. I feel in shock. Link to post Share on other sites
doyathinkso Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 Call the police and tell them you are being harassed by the guy who raped you. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 Call the police and tell them you are being harassed by the guy who raped you. ^^^ This He is trying to intimidate you. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 He's trying to intimidate you OR make it look like you are a willing friend/participant. Do NOT, let him on your facebook and block him and report this to police immediately. Through Facebook or the hotel or both, they can find out who he is. This is info the police need right now. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Veronica73 Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 What Preraph said. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 I'm so sorry Sarah. Do you think it's possible that he put something in your drink? You have good advice here. Block him and call the police. Take care. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 Did you go to the hospital to take a rape test for evidence? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah1609 Posted October 1, 2018 Author Share Posted October 1, 2018 Did you go to the hospital to take a rape test for evidence? Yes, i did. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah1609 Posted October 1, 2018 Author Share Posted October 1, 2018 I'm so sorry Sarah. Do you think it's possible that he put something in your drink? You have good advice here. Block him and call the police. Take care. I do not think so, i am not used to drink alcohol and that day I did not eat much. Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 1, 2018 Share Posted October 1, 2018 You must report everything as soon as it happens -- everything. Take screenshots of the friend request and submit with your report. Save everything. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 1, 2018 Share Posted October 1, 2018 It's actually even more sick then that. He wants to be friends because he doesn't think he raped you. He thinks it was something else, that you wanted it, that you asked for it, that you consented even though if you were that drunk / passed out you lacked the legal capacity to consent. Your situation mirrors something grotesque being played out on an international stage. Please don't wait 35 years to go to the police. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted October 1, 2018 Share Posted October 1, 2018 Yes there are rapist who are the type that think it was a date. But he might also just be trying to make it look like you have a voluntary relationship with him in case you reported it or he may already know you reported it. either way you got the block him and report it to the police. Link to post Share on other sites
Noproblem Posted October 2, 2018 Share Posted October 2, 2018 I am sorry about what happened to you. Are you getting counseling? Please do! I think this guy is trying to befriend you on facebook either to Threaten you or Beg you to drop the charges Or apologize and pretend he didn't know you didn't want it. I don't know! What a despicable man! Either case, report him to the police again. Link to post Share on other sites
Amy1992 Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 That was 2 weeks ago and yesterday I received a friend request from him on Facebook, I do not understand, I reported him with the police, he is sued by me. I feel in shock. You definitely should report that to the police. One can only speculate as to why he would send a friend request to somebody who has reported him for rape, but I would think that friend request of his could be a useful piece of evidence for the prosecution. Sending a friend request to somebody who has made an official complaint of rape against him demonstrates that this is a person with a serious lack of boundaries. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 Yes report him to the police. Maybe they can set up a sting operation where he thinks he is going to meet you but get's there and it's them with an arrest warrant. Do it, he belongs in jail. Link to post Share on other sites
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