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Old 31st August 2013, 10:55 PM   #1
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Is there somewhere for those who ended up with MM/MW can post?

In reconnecting with this board over the past several days (after four years of intermittent reading), I'm wishing for and wondering if there is a forum for those of us who did end up with our MM/W.

There are unique challenges associated with this, including coparenting with exes, blending a family, trust issues and triggers, and all the good stuff that exists as well.

Just wondering if there's anywhere else to go to talk about what comes up here and there, which is different from what we experienced AS OW/M.
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Old 1st September 2013, 5:57 AM   #2
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For regular relationship issues and discussions there's the Marriage and Life Partnerships boar
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Old 1st September 2013, 6:06 AM   #3
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For regular relationship issues and discussions there's the Marriage and Life Partnerships boar
Yea.

I don't think if you're no longer in an affair you necessarily need a board only for those whose relationships started as an affair. I definitely can see how it would be helpful in some ways, and it does seem like some people still identify more with being an OW even after the A aspect has ended, maybe for similar reasons to yours, but I also think you can probably receive pretty good support from people in the Marriage and Life Partnerships section...just give some back story and I'm sure someone will be able to relate.
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Old 1st September 2013, 6:43 AM   #4
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You could try to google "other woman forum" to see if there are any other forums out there which fit your needs better. From what others state I understand Loveshack has a low percentage of relationships where the MM/MW has left the marriage.
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Old 1st September 2013, 10:26 AM   #5
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speaking of which- it looks like my PMs aren't activated yet. I can't find how long I need to be a member, or how many posts, before it's available for me to use, but hopefully it'll kick in soon
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Old 1st September 2013, 10:29 AM   #6
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In reconnecting with this board over the past several days (after four years of intermittent reading), I'm wishing for and wondering if there is a forum for those of us who did end up with our MM/W.
Marriage and Life Partnerships would be the appropriate forum.


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Speaking of which- it looks like my PMs aren't activated yet. I can't find how long I need to be a member, or how many posts, before it's available for me to use, but hopefully it'll kick in soon
30 days membership and 100 posts, or subscribing. See this thread for more information on our private messaging system. Thanks for the questions.

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