933KJL Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 OK, I am nervous. I met this wonderful girl online and we are finally meeting. I am supposed to be flying to Houston this weekend and I have no idea what to expect? We have been talking, IMMing, etc for a month or so and I feel I know her very well, but I mean this is the first time face to face. Sex? I mean is it expected? We never got to the issue of a hotel or her place--I figure I can always find a room--if needed:laugh: Can anyone help me calm my jittery nerves? Link to post Share on other sites
FataMorgana Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 I know I shouldn't be asking this...and you did say you wanted distractions from you jittery nerves....so here it is....does this one talk so much as well? Anyway, on a more serious note, well done to even get to the meeting stage...and good luck. I have never been through anything similar with this, but I just want to wish you luck. Have fun and take it as it comes, you'll probably know what the score is a few minutes after meeting her. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 I figured you were going to back out.. Well if you meet her.. pop a viagra.. that'll calm your nerves and give you something to talk about. Isn' this going to make Lilly jealous ? Link to post Share on other sites
Sand&Water Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Clear cut view of this situation: You've only been talking to this girl for about a month, and you're already meeting? I'd rethink that. You can't expect much, unless your out to get into the sack. What have you established? Its a virtual world, not the real world. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 933KJL Posted February 7, 2006 Author Share Posted February 7, 2006 LOL this one does not talk as much at all! Well at least I hope not--otherwise I will be running to the airport! After a month of talking...don't you think it is time to meet? I mean in a bar, you meet in a matter of minutes? I think it may have been sooner but scheduling is an issue. I mean the conversations we have had have been pretty intense on several different levels (if ya know what I mean) and while a big brave guy online, push is coming to shove and I am a bit nervous. She has talked about making dinner. What if she makes somethign that I really can't stand? I mean I am a polite guy and usually clear my plate (thanks grandmom) but there are certain things that I just cant eatt--like squash.... I guess I will know in a few days. I think she is meeting me at the airport and boy I hope that we recognize one another--I mean we have done the webcam thing and swapped photos, but in real is always different. And then we need to see if the LDR can work...oh hell, I am getting ahead of myself here. Need to keep my feelings in check. Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Don't know what to say to help calm your nerves, KJL, but I will just say I hope all goes well with your trip. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
butterflygurl929 Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 I agree with Fata ,have fun and enjoy yourself don't expect alot. Go with the flow. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 OK, I am nervous. I met this wonderful girl online and we are finally meeting. I am supposed to be flying to Houston this weekend and I have no idea what to expect? We have been talking, IMMing, etc for a month or so and I feel I know her very well, but I mean this is the first time face to face. Sex? I mean is it expected? We never got to the issue of a hotel or her place--I figure I can always find a room--if needed:laugh: Can anyone help me calm my jittery nerves? What is her name? The reason I ask this is I recently have found a new talent inside me. I can "read" the energy of someone by their name! I can tell you things that you may want to know about her! Just keep deep breathing, focus on the good that could come out of this online relationship...I think you need it right now 933! Let's just hope she doesn't have a moustache! Or 4 legs! Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 I read something that said the longer you talk online the less likely you are to jive when you meat. Meet. Whatever. So it's good to meet her now, IMO. It' shard not to have expectations, people always do. Just hope her picture isn't bunk, I've heard that's really common. This is why I only share hideously ugly pictures of myself. jk. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 What is her name? A no-brainer... Link to post Share on other sites
Author 933KJL Posted February 7, 2006 Author Share Posted February 7, 2006 I don't really want to mention her name here--the whole privacy thing the mods do. That is funny 4 legs---sort of like Lilly I guess. But no, in one of our conversations, we did talk about doggy style--I had to stifle a snicker. But this whole sex thing has me wierded out. And another thing that has me on edge is that we are obviously new to each other. If I end up staying over at her place for the whole weekend--not sure we can afford a hotel in Kemah, but I get so self conscious when I need to go the bathroom. I know stupid--we all do it, but I mean I am freaking out. Maybe I ought to IM her and tell her I am cancelling Link to post Share on other sites
Author 933KJL Posted February 7, 2006 Author Share Posted February 7, 2006 This is why I only share hideously ugly pictures of myself. jk. Aw BO I think you look hot with your plate of burgers and that oh so sexy (and a bit kinky) mask Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Aw BO I think you look hot with your plate of burgers and that oh so sexy (and a bit kinky) mask Well they say a way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Oh I had a thought. Does this mean that a man's heart is usually somewhere around the colon? heh. Link to post Share on other sites
kitten chick Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 What??? I thought WE were meeting on Friday. You two timing @$%#$@#^%$%$^&. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Oh just go for it and have fun. Why do we worry about using the bathroom when we meet a new person? Like we are worried that they will find out we pee and poo:lmao: Feels good to be a lil nervous doesn't it:D Just do not get the nervous poo poos! Link to post Share on other sites
Author 933KJL Posted February 7, 2006 Author Share Posted February 7, 2006 What??? I thought WE were meeting on Friday. You two timing @$%#$@#^%$%$^&. Nice try.....we are meeting the following week! Spreading the luv! Link to post Share on other sites
kitten chick Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 I figured it out. I don't know how you and Lonestar could do this. I posted my feelings on her thread. That's it. We're through. KC - in a weird mood today. interofficed a coworker a donut this morning. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Nice try.....we are meeting the following week! Spreading the luv! Well, I certainly hope she satisifies you better than Lilly. Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 Aawww...I JUST found this thread!! Great timing, because I needed a good laugh! KJL, my weekend guy cancelled tonight, so I'm free!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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