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I recently found out that my boyfriend's best friend has sent pictures of his gf, some of them in lingerie and some showing her naked from the back and side. When i asked my boyfriend about it he said his friend was just showing off his new gf to him. Should i be mad and do you think this counts as almost cheating?

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I wouldn't like it, and i'd tell him to not entertain it anymore. But i'd be very nonchalant in my saying of this. I believe it's definitely not cheating, just rude. Don't get heated about it but don't act like it's normal either. Politely tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable or something.

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You BF's best friend doesn't sound like he is taking his relationship very seriously. No, I dont think it counts as cheating (though it is going to be a little weird with that girl now) but your BF's best friend is far from a classy guy (or there is some strange bro-mance competition thing going on between your BF and that other guy).

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Number 1, I think you should never let your bf take any nude photos of you because this is what is going to happen with them. Number 2, I hate this so much that I'd tell the woman. Number 3, your bf thinks this is ok, so WTH is wrong with him? And Number 4, the fact that this goes on all the time isn't okay. These photos will likely end up online for someone's grandfather or employer to find.

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Just how well do you think you know your boyfriend?

 

Remember, you can tell a lot about someone by the company they keep. You know, birds of a feather and all that.

 

His "friend" sounds like a real low class jackass loser. Pity his poor girlfriend. You don't think that maybe, just maybe they were trading pics of their respective girlfriends??

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I recently found out that my boyfriend's best friend has sent pictures of his gf, some of them in lingerie and some showing her naked from the back and side. When i asked my boyfriend about it he said his friend was just showing off his new gf to him. Should i be mad and do you think this counts as almost cheating?

 

I mean it wouldn't bother me personally. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't stop your partner from finding other people attractive. I mean let's be honest. Do you really think he NEVER notices other attractive people? I mean idk...to me it's not that much different from looking at porn. I honestly wouldn't make it such a big deal. At the end of the day it's you he loves, right?

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I recently found out that my boyfriend's best friend has sent pictures of his gf, some of them in lingerie and some showing her naked from the back and side. When i asked my boyfriend about it he said his friend was just showing off his new gf to him. Should i be mad and do you think this counts as almost cheating?

 

Has it made you wonder if YOUR boyfriend ever sent him pictures of you (if he ever took any of you half naked, from behind or in sexy outfits) ?? It's just in bad taste to do that. It's not cheating but it's disrespectful, especially if this girl is unaware he is showing off these pictures.

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Number 1, I think you should never let your bf take any nude photos of you because this is what is going to happen with them. Number 2, I hate this so much that I'd tell the woman. Number 3, your bf thinks this is ok, so WTH is wrong with him? And Number 4, the fact that this goes on all the time isn't okay. These photos will likely end up online for someone's grandfather or employer to find.

 

This ^. All of it.

 

Most of all, I would tell the girl in question. It is not OK to share intimate photos given to/taken by a partner in trust.

 

Not sure where the cheating idea comes in.

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