Fruitee Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Is this whole "I havent felt like this in years" or similar statements some kind of new line for guys? Or am I just too cynical? Should I be worried if guy says something like that? Because I dont consider myself being that special.. And it feels like stupid thing to say imho. Have the guy been in emotional cave and now crawled out or what? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Maybe you're more special than you think. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fruitee Posted June 27, 2016 Author Share Posted June 27, 2016 ^ Lol. Maybe. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 If a man tells me this after 1 week dating I would consider it a line. If he tells me after 1 month I'd take him a little more seriously. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fruitee Posted June 27, 2016 Author Share Posted June 27, 2016 Its been months that we have been dating. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SammySammy Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Some of us are just jaded though. Between online dating, hook up culture and all of the other other stuff we see and do. If you stand out, it's not hard to believe a woman is different from the many who've passed through the pipeline. Special is rare these days. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Its been months that we have been dating. You don't think you're lovable? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 I've met a couple guys prone to saying nice things like that that make you feel like you're special, but then in the end, it was really just them being giddy about sex. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fruitee Posted June 27, 2016 Author Share Posted June 27, 2016 You don't think you're lovable? Yes and no. My main concern is that what does it mean. What they been doing all this time then. And if Im just training wheels now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted June 28, 2016 Share Posted June 28, 2016 Only take it for meaning anything other than they're happy about getting sex if they back it up with commitment and good dating and treating you with respect. Women are in love with love, and men are in love with sex. That isn't the truth absolute, but that is the default you should assume first and then wait for proof. If it's said early on, they are infatuated with who they hope you'll be, which is the ideal woman in their head. That's who they're in love with. It means something when it happens well into the relationship, like months, and there's been nothing to contradict the sincerity. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fruitee Posted June 28, 2016 Author Share Posted June 28, 2016 ^ Thats kind of what I was thinking too. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Buddhist Posted June 28, 2016 Share Posted June 28, 2016 Have the guy been in emotional cave and now crawled out or what? Very likely, yes. Link to post Share on other sites
Ensam Posted June 28, 2016 Share Posted June 28, 2016 Yes and no. My main concern is that what does it mean. What they been doing all this time then. And if Im just training wheels now. Well perhaps they haven't been dating for whatever reason. Or they have been dating but not been fortunate to meet someone they really feel for. And sometimes a line is just a line. Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted June 28, 2016 Share Posted June 28, 2016 Whenever a man has said this to me ..... even my ex said it when we first started dating....... I don't take it *literally* ..... I take it to mean he is attracted, infatuated and excited to be dating me. Nothing more, nothing less... Link to post Share on other sites
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