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Old 28th June 2015, 5:30 PM   #1
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Why do escorts hate black men ?

I was scrolling through backpage and saw a few ads sa NO BLACK MEN on there ads or saying no thugs or pimps even stating they don't see black men under a certain age . why is this ? From what i knoeven any man mixed with with black. Ive seen in real life there are WHITE men that are thugs and pimps and some that are just very disrespectful just as there are other men in different races that are like this . Some in there ads even say they only see white men only and no other races .

you might think there might only be white escorts saying this but i saw some blck and Hispanic women say this too and in different cities in the us the same escort would post a different ad and it wont say it at all . its mostly the southern states that they say this ironically. But i just wanna understand why ? P.s ive seen a. Couple of ads that said they see black men only and they were white why would they want to see them and others dont ?

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Old 28th June 2015, 5:33 PM   #2
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Because they are trying to avoid being enslaved by a pimp and fear that this is the group most likely to try that with them.
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Old 28th June 2015, 5:39 PM   #3
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Adding to the charm of all this is is the testimony of several pimps that they also forbid their sex workers to speak to black men, out of a suspicion that the black men are themselves necessarily just looking to pimp these girls out. "It's basically no black men. Most of the time the other black men were other guys who were trying to pimp on them or take advantage of them. Try to rape them or something like that," said one.
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Old 28th June 2015, 8:06 PM   #4
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I suspect they've encountered more black gangsters, scammers, rape, time wasters, etc. Simply statistically, white men make more money and thus are more likely to pay what she is asking without hustling her.
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Old 28th June 2015, 8:53 PM   #5
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In Australia it's Indians that get the short end of the stick.

It's a hard enough life for them already, at least let them choose a preference!

(In case you're wondering, I have a FB who's a hooker, yeah..I know...right?)
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Old 28th June 2015, 9:01 PM   #6
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Wow! Lots of escort questions and threads today!

Unfortunately, I know every answer. This isn't speculation. This is the actual set of reasons many escorts don't want to see black guys (hang on, any black dudes reading)...

Note: this is what escorts say, not what I say.

1) Black guys have penises that are too big
2) They could get robbed

(both are racist myths)

Only a very few are out and out full of hate racists. Most just feel they'll have an easier day on the vaj if they don't see black guys and see it as safer overall.
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Old 28th June 2015, 9:52 PM   #7
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Like most men, most Black men are no threat to these women. However, some are bad for business.

First, there's a street element - pimps and gangsters - that they understandably try to avoid.

Secondly, though many people try to say it's not true, some Black penises can mess up an escort's day. Throw her whole schedule off. From what I understand, it's not just the size but the stamina. Not worth losing income from other dates in the long run.
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Old 28th June 2015, 9:57 PM   #8
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From what I understand, it's not just the size but the stamina.
So, really, there's a difference between stamina in the bedroom when it comes to white v. black? I often ponder that cuz I don't know, I only date white guys and seems like a marathon sex session isn't something many of them are into. Very rare for me to find them who are into it.

I thought the reason why escorts don't like black men cuz they don't tip?

But seriously, what is it with threads like this?
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Old 28th June 2015, 10:03 PM   #9
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The story of HIV in America is the story of HIV among black Americans, who are over eight times more likely than white Americans to test positive for the virus.

HIV in America has disproportionately hurt blacks ? even after treatment - The Washington Post

Yea were a condom but If i had the to pick between two woman one has HIV and one does not what one would you pick?
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So, really, there's a difference between stamina in the bedroom when it comes to white v. black? I often ponder that cuz I don't know, I only date white guys and seems like a marathon sex session isn't something many of them are into. Very rare for me to find them who are into it.

I thought the reason why escorts don't like black men cuz they don't tip?

But seriously, what is it with threads like this?
I don't want to say too much ... but ... that is just what I was told.
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Old 29th June 2015, 2:53 AM   #11
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The story of HIV in America is the story of HIV among black Americans, who are over eight times more likely than white Americans to test positive for the virus.

HIV in America has disproportionately hurt blacks ? even after treatment - The Washington Post

Yea were a condom but If i had the to pick between two woman one has HIV and one does not what one would you pick?
Hey man, this isn't the reason. *All* clients are assumed to have HIV and escorts are protected from it.

Midknight, who echoed what I said has it right.

But I just have to speak up on the penis thing. Complete myth. You cannot assume penis size at all from race. As I've mentioned, I know some escorts. Some of my friends are escorts and I know the whole industry from their side. My friends' vajs have been destroyed by Greek guys and plenty of Asian guys too (who are rumored to have the smallest of all, but don't), as well as standard white.

Just as race doesn't determine what a woman's depth to cervix and overall size, neither does it determine a guy's size. It's luck of the draw.

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Old 29th June 2015, 3:16 AM   #12
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Racism

Plain and simple .
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Old 29th June 2015, 3:55 AM   #13
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Why is this even a question on a relationship forum?
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Old 29th June 2015, 4:37 AM   #14
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I was scrolling through backpage and saw a few ads sa NO BLACK MEN on there ads or saying no thugs or pimps even stating they don't see black men under a certain age . why is this ?

A lot of escorts won't see any men under a certain age.

While everything else said here might be true, I don't think a woman has to be racist just because she doesn't want to cross race lines. It is still a highly personal business and they all have lines they don't cross.


Also. you said you saw a few ads and then claimed that escorts hate black men, as if this was true of all of them. How do you equate a few to meaning all? How many ads did not make such a specification? In backpage there are what, hundreds? So a few out of hundreds?

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Why is this even a question on a relationship forum?
Good question, and I'll pose it to moderation for their opinion.

Short version is LoveShack embraces discussion of all sorts of interpersonal relationships, not just 'love', and a host of off-topic forums, like our political forum and religion forum, even though our prime directive is interpersonal relationships.

So, for now, since the site owner states that members shall be treated with the utmost of respect regardless of how ridiculous or absurd we feel their opinion (or question) is, we'll continue to answer why, or why not, escorts hate black men. If no answer is forthcoming, thousands of other threads to engage with. Thanks!
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