Artifact Posted November 29, 2004 Share Posted November 29, 2004 OMG, I love my fiance so much- but when it comes to our moods, I am always the one hoping for the best and he's ALWAYS the one expecting the worst. For the most part, he's pleasant enough. He's a realist, right? But if anything comes up (no matter how minor) he thinks the world will end, there is nothing to do, everything has been ruined... etc. And, I see this trait in the rest of his family too... if it's not hereditary, than it's acquired. But, we've been together over 2 years, and he has lightened up A LOT. Unfortunately, when I am PMSing (now! today! this moment!) he's like a wet blanket. I accept it, but sometimes I cannot deal with it. So, I guess that's why I'm telling all of you! I do feel better. There is only so much grumpy I can take. Artifact Link to post Share on other sites
Queen B Posted November 29, 2004 Share Posted November 29, 2004 Sounds like this would be a good time to leave him home and go out by yourself or with the girls to get some good food, go shopping, go for a run or lock yourself in the bathroom for a hot, relaxing bubble bath. I find other people's moods really affaect me so when I can feel that I'm "catching" someoene elses crabbiness...I take a break from them, for my own well-being! Link to post Share on other sites
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