Thinkalot Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 So, do you always tell the whole truth...or do you sometimes fudge little details, to save hurting, or offending someone? Or maybe, you tell BIG lies? I'm just wondering. I am one of the most openly honest people I know...sometimes I tell truths even when they hurt someone's feelings...I have been learning to be a little more tactful, even if it means telling the odd "white" lie to save worrying or upsetting someone, especially when I know that telling the complete story will serve no purpose! I'm just curious... Honest Thinkalot. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Of course. My ex once asked if I thought she was getting fat. She was gaining weight, yes, but I didn't tell her. I told her I loved her how she was, and if she didn't like how she looked, she should do something about it. Stuff like that. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 White lies? All the time. But they're only OK if you're doing it to save the other person's feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
jester Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Personally, I wouldn't want to live in a world without white lies. White lies help lubricate social relations. If you haven't already, see the flick, "The Liar," starring Jim Carrey. Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Then I caught my sweetie telling white lies to protect me, so I started telling white lies to protect ME too! If I go shopping and accidently spend more than I should have, I tend to *adjust the books* so to speak so it's not so obvious. I think it bothers him if I overspend, because he feels like I don't care about our future. Gotta love'em...even their faults Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Do you mean like "Oh yeah Baby....your the BEST I ever had!!!"???? YOU BET! LMAO! Link to post Share on other sites
jester Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Do you mean like "Oh yeah Baby....your the BEST I ever had!!!"???? Arabess, does this mean you LIED to me?! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Thinkalot Posted February 3, 2004 Author Share Posted February 3, 2004 LOL! You guys make me laugh. I thought there'd be some funny responses. Link to post Share on other sites
jester Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Well, Thinkalot, this is the BEST Thread I've ever been on. I mean it. I really do. No fibbing. All the posts were absolutely brilliant. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by jester Arabess, does this mean you LIED to me?! Oh NO Big Boy!! I would never lie to you. Not only were you the best I ever had....but it was really the 'first' real orgasm I ever had with someone else. Not everyone has both size AND stamina. You were WONDERFUL.....Thank YOU!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
jester Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Your most welcome!!! Good night! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Thinkalot Posted February 3, 2004 Author Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by jester Well, Thinkalot, this is the BEST Thread I've ever been on. I mean it. I really do. No fibbing. All the posts were absolutely brilliant. Thanks Jester! You really are the BEST Lshacker around..., no honestly Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 No. I wouldn't tell little white lies like that; They're still lies. And when you catch your partner in telling them it hurts you very badly. Imagine asking your partner a question -- something about you sexually. Your partner had better be telling the truth, because how would you feel if you found out he/she was lying down the line? Even if it isn't in that department, if someone is gaining weight tell them. Are they annoying you? Tell them. Just answer in a way that you respect their feelings. Honesty is the best policy. Relationships are built on trust. White lies... Disgusting. Link to post Share on other sites
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