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The boomerang effect?


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I've noticed in my years of dating almost every guy i've been in a relationship with, "liked," had a thing with, or went out with a couple of times has always come back with the exception of 2 guys. It could be months or years later but they always come back around.

 

Why is that? Why do guys, and sometimes girls feel the need to come back?

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The desire for instant gratification. More often than not, they are running through a dry spell and instinctively turn to someone from the past in hopes that it will be easier than finding someone new, since there is already some sort of history there.

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Nostalgia. If the relationship was rocky, time minimized those memories. Loneliness. The belief since they were accepted once, they'll be welcomed back into the fold yet again.

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