moongoddess Posted July 26, 2003 Share Posted July 26, 2003 Is it necessarily a sign of disinterest or lack of love given that there is no desire for marriage, even an aversity to it? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 26, 2003 Share Posted July 26, 2003 Not at all. The lack of desire to marry the most beloved could be an act of great mercy and benevolence. A person can love many people and it would be impossible to marry them all. Some can fall in love once every six months....it would not be practical to get married so often. Marriage is about timing. You usually end up marrying the person you are in love with when your time and their time for that kind of partnership has arrived. Meanwhile, love and marriage don't necessarily go together like a horse and carriage. Some people would prefer not to be married to anybody who would have them as a partner. Some people who are madly in love with another would prefer by virtue to spare them a life that might be less than what they deserve. Love is actually irrelevant to marriage in a lot of ways. Divorce can be an act of love if done for the right reasons. So you can divorce somebody because you love them...but to do that you have to marry them first. If you're confused, you ought to fall in love sometime and see what it's like. Link to post Share on other sites
moongoddess Posted July 29, 2003 Share Posted July 29, 2003 Thanks so much for your feedback. It was insightful and encouraging at the same time. I also was able to find some information on the same subject by looking at other postings on another website. Cynthia Link to post Share on other sites
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