Gwyneth Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 If this isn't the right place for this post, please move it. I don't know where to post it. ::sigh:: I'm a five months pregnant and horny as anything. And I have been having dirty-wild fantasies about the maintenance man in my apartment building... ::sigh:: Is this normal when pregnant? My friend thinks so. I don't know what it is but it's all I am thinking about right now. Weird right? And I have a man in my life at the moment (who isn't the father of the baby...yeah, I know--trashy...). Every time I see this man my eyes bug out, and he must notice. But who the heck would want me with a baby inside of me? Unless he has some pregnant woman fantasy (it happened on FRIENDS). How do I get past these fantasies, and what can I do about them, other than the obvious (make them come true). I would never do anything like that because of the baby inside of me. Please Help Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 Get your boyfriend to dress up like a maintenance man and milk him dry? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 18, 2008 Author Share Posted June 18, 2008 Get your boyfriend to dress up like a maintenance man and milk him dry? BF and I aren't having sex. It's uncomfortable for me to have sex. Fantasies are all I got right now... Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 I definetly wouldn't call you normal Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 18, 2008 Author Share Posted June 18, 2008 I definetly wouldn't call you normal Why? Cuz I'm pregnant, sex isn't comfortable, and I'm having a fantasy? Why is that not normal? Don't just say it, tell why!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 Every time I see this man my eyes bug out, and he must notice. How do I get past these fantasies, and what can I do about them, other than the obvious (make them come true). Sounds like you're a little out of control there little mama. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 Why? Cuz I'm pregnant, sex isn't comfortable, and I'm having a fantasy? Why is that not normal? Don't just say it, tell why!!! It was normal for me. I couldn't get enough when I was pregnant. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 18, 2008 Author Share Posted June 18, 2008 Sounds like you're a little out of control there little mama. YOu haven't answered Any of my questions. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 18, 2008 Author Share Posted June 18, 2008 Sounds like you're a little out of control there little mama. Are you harassing me? Is that what you are doing now? Sending me PMs and telling me that it would only be normal if I'm pregnant with male twins??? You are harassing me. Step back or I will report your next post to LS Board of Directors. Where do these loony birds come from??? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 Enjoy your fantasizes....Nothing wrong with you at all! Hey, you said BF. You have a BF now? It is who I think it is? Anyway, when indoubt, use the shower massager! That'll make you feel good too.. Link to post Share on other sites
paperthinheart Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 when i was pregnant with my daughter i was CONSTANTLY wanting sex, and constantly having weird fantasies about both my bf and other guys... every pregnant person i know has gone through simular situations, your hormones are just going CRAZZZZY but its nothing to worry about... the 2nd trimester you will be more sex hungry bc in the first trimester you were soooo exhausted all the time, and the third you will be exhausted once again since your body is working over time to get your little baby ready for birth... enjoy these fantasies... i guess since its uncomfortable to have sex then you dont have to worry about sleeping with this guy... one position you can try is doggy style or you laying on your side and him entering you from behind... those are the only 2 we could use bc anyothers were almost painful... so if you get the urge, try those! good luck with the baby! =] Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 There must some maintenance man porn out there that you can watch. If not have your BF dress up like one and take a few pics. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 OP, you're perfectly normal... Intercourse is uncomfortable. Sex is not and you're horny. Be creative Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 BF and I aren't having sex. It's uncomfortable for me to have sex. Fantasies are all I got right now... Why is it uncomfortable? Have you tried other positions? I'm 36 weeks and still very much sexually active, have been through my whole pregnancy. We just have to be creative about the positions. Although lately I get braxton hicks after sex, at this point I get them every day, though. Being horny is very normal with pregnancy. All the women I've been in contact with felt that way, with a few notable exceptions (and those women believe that one should only have sex to procreate, so there you go) Link to post Share on other sites
Kenyth Posted June 18, 2008 Share Posted June 18, 2008 There are plenty of other things besides intercourse. I'm sure he'll (BF) be up for it if you ask. Unless, of course, you're one of the unfortunate women who have the conflicting problems of being horny, but not being able to have sex because you can't stand how you look. That would be, unfortunate. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 19, 2008 Author Share Posted June 19, 2008 Enjoy your fantasizes....Nothing wrong with you at all! Hey, you said BF. You have a BF now? It is who I think it is? Anyway, when indoubt, use the shower massager! That'll make you feel good too.. Hmm, not sure. But he's the guy who I dated a couple times before getting pregnant. I really like him BO: Sex is uncomfortable because it is--how am I supposed to answer such a rhetorical question? It just is! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Some women don't feel comfortable having sex while pregnant because they fear it may hurt the baby and that worry turns into more worry and affects sex. Men worry about this too. Could that be one thing that's on your mind? Oh that guy, I thought you meant the baby's father, exMM.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 19, 2008 Author Share Posted June 19, 2008 Some women don't feel comfortable having sex while pregnant because they fear it may hurt the baby and that worry turns into more worry and affects sex. Men worry about this too. Could that be one thing that's on your mind? Oh that guy, I thought you meant the baby's father, exMM.. Could be the reason. It's mental for sure. Oh that guy, I thought you meant the baby's father, exMM.. Heaven's NO!!!!!! NO NO NO NO NO NO NOOOOOO!!! When pigs fly and frogs jump on pogo sticks!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
angie2443 Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 I'm on my 4th pregnancy and with each one I've had lots of fantisies and wanted sex all the time. Go to babycenter.com. On the pregnancy boards there's almost always a thread about bieng really horny when pregnant and about what celebrity everyone most wants to shag. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 23, 2008 Author Share Posted June 23, 2008 I'm on my 4th pregnancy and with each one I've had lots of fantisies and wanted sex all the time. Go to babycenter.com. On the pregnancy boards there's almost always a thread about bieng really horny when pregnant and about what celebrity everyone most wants to shag. LOL...will do. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 Phew! Glad it ain't him! Could be the reason. It's mental for sure. So, what can you do to work through the mental aspect of this so you can fully enjoy sex during your pregnancy? My BF told me during her pregnancy she was having sex up to 4 times day! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 23, 2008 Author Share Posted June 23, 2008 Phew! Glad it ain't him! So, what can you do to work through the mental aspect of this so you can fully enjoy sex during your pregnancy? My BF told me during her pregnancy she was having sex up to 4 times day! I think my fantasy has ended Well the story goes... My bf doesn't feel comfortable either because this isn't his baby. So it's a whole mixture of things. He is willing to wait for me to have the baby and heal before we can do it. In some ways that's special, but I'd understand if he felt the need to cheat on me, or leave me for another woman. We find satisfaction in other ways. Link to post Share on other sites
SeraBella Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 I think my fantasy has ended Well the story goes... My bf doesn't feel comfortable either because this isn't his baby. So it's a whole mixture of things. He is willing to wait for me to have the baby and heal before we can do it. In some ways that's special, but I'd understand if he felt the need to cheat on me, or leave me for another woman. We find satisfaction in other ways. Sorry your fantasy has ended That must be a common thing among men. I was considering becoming a surrogate and discussing it with my bf. He said he was ok with me doing it, but told me he didn't think he'd be able to have sex with me while I was pregnant with someone else's child. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 My bf doesn't feel comfortable either because this isn't his baby. I hope he accepts the baby once it's born and he doesn't do a 180 on you, feeling since the baby isn't his, he doesn't want to be a father.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gwyneth Posted June 25, 2008 Author Share Posted June 25, 2008 Sorry your fantasy has ended That must be a common thing among men. I was considering becoming a surrogate and discussing it with my bf. He said he was ok with me doing it, but told me he didn't think he'd be able to have sex with me while I was pregnant with someone else's child. It has come back...the fantasy I hope he accepts the baby once it's born and he doesn't do a 180 on you, feeling since the baby isn't his, he doesn't want to be a father.. He enjoys every minute of my pregnancy. Every kick, every hicup, every stretch mark (well, he will ), every heart burn...he's by my side. It's romantic. He's such a good friend. Link to post Share on other sites
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