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I seem to be spending alot of time in the 'parenting' section lately. Geeez.

 

Was upgrading my 11 yr old son's operating system on his computer today. I needed to hook up a new mouse. As I was hooking up the cord to the back of the computer, I found a CD peaking out from behind his desk.

 

Lo and behold, it was a porno CD. Wow. I was taken back a bit...because he never talks about girls around me.

 

I put it back.

 

He doesn't know I found it, nor did I feel the need to let him know that I know.

 

Now what do I do?? I just want to forget I found it.

 

Man. What a day!!

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Now what do I do?? I just want to forget I found it.

Nothing....as long as there were nekkid girls on the disk then you should be happy. Its totally normal.

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If it was a true porno cd then 11 years old is too young to view it.

 

He isn't emotionally ready at 11 to fully comprehend porno sex.

 

Porno sex and real sex is different in the fact that porno sex doesn't involve 2 people who care about or love each other.

 

I think you need to sit him down and explain the birds and the bees to him and explain the difference in porno sex and real sex.

You also need to explain to him about a loving relationship between 2 people and how it forms..

 

It would really suck if he thought the way to treat a woman was to smack her ass, call her dirty names and and blow his load on her face.

 

Now there is nothing wrong with kids(teens) and dirty mags or porno as we all sooner or later will see them.. but you have to put it all in perspective and explain to him the right way to have sex

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I think you need to sit him down and explain the birds and the bees to him and explain the difference in porno sex and real sex.

You also need to explain to him about a loving relationship between 2 people and how it forms..

I disagree...he's too young for that "talk" right now.

 

It would really suck if he thought the way to treat a woman was to smack her ass, call her dirty names and and blow his load on her face.

i thought that was normal...:lmao:

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I wouldn't worry to much about it. The old days it was dad's hidden P'boys and now CD's. To bad it wasn't a DVD.

 

He have a talk yet? I'm sure at school but what about home?

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I disagree...he's too young for that "talk" right now.

 

Mr Porn.. How is an 11 year old child going to figure out what is the right way to treat a woman if the only info he has is a porno that he watches..

 

If she believes that he is old enough to watch a porno then he is old enough to learn about loving relationships..

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I disagree...he's too young for that "talk" right now.

 

 

i thought that was normal...:lmao:

 

Never to late to talk. some kids are more mature and aware while some 20 somethings still shy away. Only she could determine that.

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i hope hes had the sex talk already.. if not its time for it.. tell him the difference between real sex and porn. that its natural to masterbate etc etc.. be prepared to waiting longer for the potty now.. lol

 

i cant laugh to hard.. i have a boy too and give him about 12yrs and he'll be doing the same thing

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I remember being 11 and was sexually curious. But looking back at it I find it a bit disturbing to actually having thoughts like that and masterbating so young. You can take it away but you won't really be able to control his temptation to his thoughts. There was a 13 year old boy at my work and he looked like he was 8 now 11 and imagine the how young they look?? It is normal but Its wrong...talk to him about it

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I just talked to him.

 

He didn't seem defensive or anything. Didn't act like he cared.

 

Let's just say, after talking to my son, I know who he got the CD from.

 

That little boy ain't gonna be staying over night here again.

 

Nope. :mad: 11 yrs old is just too young.

 

I feel like going over and talking to his dad...but, that would be waaaaay to embarassing and uncomfortable for both of us.

 

"Uh..here's your porno CD".

 

He's a single dad, and he probably would think I was hitting on him. :rolleyes:

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Mr Porn.. How is an 11 year old child going to figure out what is the right way to treat a woman if the only info he has is a porno that he watches....

he doesn't need to know how to treat women at his age....and he wouldn't understand it anyways.

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The good thing about it is now you have a free porno cd for you to watch :D

Hahaha!!! I was actually kinda happy about that fact! I've never owned a porno Cd before. I feel special.

 

I feel like the policeman who takes the teenager's beer for his own.

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he doesn't need to know how to treat women at his age....and he wouldn't understand it anyways.

 

Oh I do agree.. if you scroll up to my first post I mentioned that he wasn't emotionally ready to understand porno sex.. I figured you would understand that it also covered normal sex.. I also mentioned that 11 was too young to view REAL porno...

 

We are not talking 1970's playboys here..

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You woulden't happen to be her son would you?jk haha jw but what made you think of creating that type of name. He is too young for even thinking about how he should treat a woman in a relationship but things like that at a young age degrades a woman, so how is it at all healthy for him to watch?

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Hahaha!!! I was actually kinda happy about that fact! I've never owned a porno Cd before. I feel special.

 

I feel like the policeman who takes the teenager's beer for his own.

 

I one time had to dig something out of the dumpster at work that got thrown away by mistake and when I was in there I found 3 porno cds..

 

I'm thinking Hot Shiot.. JACKPOT... Then I noticed they were all Tranny pornos doing other Tranny's :eek:

 

They stayed in the trash

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I feel like going over and talking to his dad...but, that would be waaaaay to embarassing and uncomfortable for both of us.

 

"Uh..here's your porno CD".

just mail it to the dad with a very short note. even though i am porn_guy i don't think 11 yr olds should be wathcing porn.

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We are not talking 1970's playboys here..

NO...definitely not the 70's here. It was a Hustler CD with girl on girl action.

 

Now, I keep picturing that neighbor boy's dad jerking off. :sick: From what my son says, he has an extensive collection of porn at his house. I think a steady supply of porn, is really messing with his son. IMO.

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I'm thinking Hot Shiot.. JACKPOT... Then I noticed they were all Tranny pornos doing other Tranny's :eek:

 

They stayed in the trash

Hahahaha!! :lmao: Damn! Thought you got lucky, didn't ya!

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I think my son was eight when he first visited the Girls Gone Wild website.

 

I was told it's kind of normal, considering he was almost nine.

 

I would share it with his dad, but I think the apple didn't fall far from MY tree. :laugh: Now if it was guys gone wild, then I might freak.

 

Just look forward to grandkids, Luv. ;)

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just mail it to the dad with a very short note. even though i am porn_guy i don't think 11 yr olds should be wathcing porn.

Thanks, Porn_Guy. I feel like I am talking to an expert.

 

Well...I am pooped! Gonna go be a couch potato for a couple hours. :cool:

 

Thanks for all your advice!!

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Hahaha!!! I was actually kinda happy about that fact! I've never owned a porno Cd before. I feel special.

 

I feel like the policeman who takes the teenager's beer for his own.

 

Let us know how the "endings" are! :lmao: :lmao:

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i hope hes had the sex talk already.. if not its time for it.. tell him the difference between real sex and porn. that its natural to masterbate etc etc.. be prepared to waiting longer for the potty now.. lol

 

i cant laugh to hard.. i have a boy too and give him about 12yrs and he'll be doing the same thing

 

 

I Really Am Going To The Bathroom That Long!!!:mad:

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If it was a true porno cd then 11 years old is too young to view it.

 

He isn't emotionally ready at 11 to fully comprehend porno sex.

 

Porno sex and real sex is different in the fact that porno sex doesn't involve 2 people who care about or love each other.

 

I think you need to sit him down and explain the birds and the bees to him and explain the difference in porno sex and real sex.

You also need to explain to him about a loving relationship between 2 people and how it forms..

 

It would really suck if he thought the way to treat a woman was to smack her ass, call her dirty names and and blow his load on her face.

 

Now there is nothing wrong with kids(teens) and dirty mags or porno as we all sooner or later will see them.. but you have to put it all in perspective and explain to him the right way to have sex

I agree 100% AC . Oh and if the kid is old enough to be interested or watching porn then its past time for the sit down talk . Personally I think I would veto porn watching by anyone under say 17 in the house , but I would not even acknoledge a dirty mag . the two are very different things.
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