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Old 2nd February 2019, 8:58 PM   #16
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You should have said no. If you are right about the situation and carrying the cards, then you should have the courage to sit your whole family down and tell them why it is toxic of them to bring the women who cheated on you around when it was very hard to deal with. Climb up their butts about it.
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Old 2nd February 2019, 11:32 PM   #17
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You should have said no. If you are right about the situation and carrying the cards, then you should have the courage to sit your whole family down and tell them why it is toxic of them to bring the women who cheated on you around when it was very hard to deal with. Climb up their butts about it.
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Old 3rd February 2019, 4:27 AM   #18
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I wouldn’t go on the vacation if my cheating ex went. I’d also ask my family why on earth they’d think I’d be ok with it.

My son dated a girl for about 4 yrs. I really liked her and her family. I talk to her about once or twice a year - she wishes me happy birthday, etc. But she never cheated on my son, they were just incompatible. I don’t even socialize with her because my son always comes first, and I wouldn’t even dream of inviting her to something that my son would be at. I really don’t know what your family is thinking by supporting this person. What she did to you should’ve been a complete dealbreaker for them.
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Old 4th February 2019, 4:06 PM   #19
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The only way your going to get passed this with them is to deal with it straight on. I would call your mom or go see her. I would tell her you have had some time to think about this and you decided If is in fact coming on the trip that you will have to pass on going. Your mom will probably ask why this is where I would explain to her how she cheated on you in great detail. She is probably being told you made this up and that isn't true. Cheaters always diminish the horrible things they have done. After you have explained it I would be honest with her if they do stay friends with her then it might be best that you back away from them.


You cant force them to do anything. You can set yourself up with great boundaries. Sure that comes at a cost some times but its really worth it.

I am sorry your even in this spot its really amazing just how many people lack morals.

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Old 4th February 2019, 4:52 PM   #20
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I agree with everybody and


Disneyland is a silly place, if they were all going somewhere great, ok, meh...



time to find some new friends...
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