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My Dad is out to lunch and rude


dennisflorida

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My Dad is single and has occasional bouts of depression. He is a nice well liked guy usually but has anxiety and quirks. But he can also be clueless and selfish too. It's weird. I hope i'm not like him.

 

When he comes to visit me and my wife and our baby son, he isn't really

there. He spends most of the time on his phone texting or trying to figure

out his latest phone or checking scores on his phone, takes pictures of baby

then spends time trying to edit them on his phone, basically the whole time

he visits he's hooked to his phone, not paying attention to us, doesn't ask

us how we've been, doesn't pay much attention to his grandson, then leaves

when he's tired.

 

I'm afraid to tell him to knock it off or tell him he's being rude because

i fear he'll get depressed over it or hurt. He doesn't see his ways...

 

What should I do? my wife doesn't appreciate it or get excited when

he asks to come over anymore. I really don't feel any connection to my Dad

anymore either. I mean he's never been "hands on hugs and kisses" with

me my whole life, I've never been able to go to him for advice but He's really

well, I don't feel like i know who he is.

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