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Old 27th September 2017, 6:25 AM   #31
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If/when you had a bitter divorce, you have to learn how to deal with the ex spouse bad mouthing you to people. It part of the deal. Learn to not care what she says. She has no right to keep the kids from you, so get the courts involved if you have to. She will lose.
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Old 27th September 2017, 8:20 AM   #32
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Originally Posted by blessedby4 View Post
You may want to consider the impact this could have on your kids. If your ex prevents you from seeing your kids over this; or causes difficulty in you seeing your kids- this is something that you may want to seriously consider before moving forward with your lady friend.
Agree. Legally I don't think the ex can do this, especially if the kids want to see him, but the ramifications on the kids is what is crucial. They are always #1 priority. Not you. Not your lady friend. Not your ex-wife.
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