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my husband wants a divorce, I don't, I still very much love him


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My husband announced to me 1 month ago from yesterday that he wants a divorce. I am still totally in shock. I think there has been 2 days in the past month that I have not cried. Even after all that he's said and done to me, I still want us to be a couple. The person who I have been talking to for the past month is not the same man that I met, fell in love with and married. I don't know who this "new" person is at all.

 

Has anyone had any experience with a book called "Stop Your Divorce" by Homer McDonald. I haven't downloaded it yet, but the info. I got from the website makes a lot of sense.

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i don't really know to say, except i'm so sorry. please feel free to vent and emote, sweety.

 

it's sometimes a good idea to focus on what you will do next, resolutions are often powerful, let us know.

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did he say why? is it the mid life thing? affair? does he have a reason?

what i did, would probably depend on why he wants it,unless i wanted out to.

i think i know the book your talking about and it tells you to just go along with it for a while,and maybe he will change his mind. also to not argue about anything just let him do what he wants. thats what i got out of it anyway.

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I am sorry for your pain.. I know exactly how you feel..

 

Did you tell your husband that you do not want a divorce? Have you tryed marriage counseling? How long have you been married?

 

Did he move out or does he still live with you?

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