figgurinoutlife Posted June 27, 2005 Share Posted June 27, 2005 My ex is driving me nuts! She called today after 2 weeks (I told her I wanted NC over 2 months ago so I could heal and she has started calling 2-3 weeks ago for stupid stuff and today she called again after 2 weeks of silence). Anyway she called to see if I was going to a parade my city was having and she actually sounded decent on the phone instead of bitter this time, she got my machine because I didn't answer. So I call her back 9 hours later to see how the parade was and right away again she starts asking me if I am still dating the girl I said I was interested in last time we talked, and I say yes, but I am currently interested in another girl that I met last week at a bar and right away she wants to know who it is, how old she is, where she works. She is wanting to find out if she knows her. I say "why are you so interested in my personal life?" She says "I could care less, I am just bored at work." *beep*?? She could have asked me about my new job, which she knows I just got or how I have been or anything. Instead she jumps right to wondering who I'm dating, then she starts asking why I'm playing the girl I was sort of dating before and I say "I'm not because we are not exclusive and I am just crushing on this new girl." She just starts giving me a lecture about playing girls seems like. And I am not even doing so. I then ask her how her job is going (she is working in a porn store for a second job, and she says "good, I have access to all kinds of toys", then tells me which sexual position she likes with her boyfriend. She then has to get off the phone because she has to take another call, and that I will just have to call her tommorow so I say "I gotta go anyway" I then hang up. She has intitiated ALL the contact for the last 2 and a half months. I feel as though she is throwing her boyfriend in my face alot. If she says she doesn't care at all about my personal life why does she ask, and why is she calling me? Can anyone analyze her behavior? Link to post Share on other sites
NiCoLe20 Posted June 27, 2005 Share Posted June 27, 2005 u asked why is she calling you, well, why are you picking up?!! Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted June 27, 2005 Share Posted June 27, 2005 Originally posted by NiCoLe20 u asked why is she calling you, well, why are you picking up?!! Amen. Link to post Share on other sites
Author figgurinoutlife Posted June 27, 2005 Author Share Posted June 27, 2005 Well, I have been doing NC for 2 months so I thought maybe we could possibly be friends now, but she is acting weird and I was hoping someone on here could analyze her behavior? Link to post Share on other sites
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