sheithappens Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 lets say your ex always complained about you not wanting to sing karaoke and stuff like that , would it be weird or creepy to serenade her? we do have some contact, so it wouldnt just be out of the blue... has anyone done this before? Link to post Share on other sites
RadR Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 dude i dunno abt it being wierd or not.but im the dumpee and i really love her. My plan is to sing fallling slowly from the movieonce to her.just do it if ur heart in it Link to post Share on other sites
Author sheithappens Posted December 20, 2009 Author Share Posted December 20, 2009 yeah man, i probably will, i do know how to play the guitar, i was thinking lifehouse "whatever it takes".... thats if i end up doing it lol , Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 You are trying to get her back then? And you think a seranade MAY do so? Is she a die hard karaoke fan? Because a song would be a nice gesture. But it really doesn't fix anything or have redemption value. That is something you do more as a gift when you are together...or an I'm Really Sorry when you are together. It isn't grounds for reconciliation unless there is a crap load more to it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sheithappens Posted December 20, 2009 Author Share Posted December 20, 2009 I am trying to get her back ,yes she loves karaoke, i just want to show her that i am comfortable doing stuff like that you know, i was thinking about doing it kinda like a gift sort of with some nice wine and stuff ...... thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 I am trying to get her back ,yes she loves karaoke, i just want to show her that i am comfortable doing stuff like that you know, i was thinking about doing it kinda like a gift sort of with some nice wine and stuff ...... thoughts? Is she talking to you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author sheithappens Posted December 20, 2009 Author Share Posted December 20, 2009 yeah we do talk, she is the one who initiates contact with me all the time Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 yeah we do talk, she is the one who initiates contact with me all the time Well then you at least have opportunity. If you are going to make a move with karaoke thing you should have that be spontaneous. It sound like that is what she needs to see from you. More outgoing and just having fun rather than a huge gesture with it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sheithappens Posted December 20, 2009 Author Share Posted December 20, 2009 thats true... i was thinking since she wants to meet up next weekend , just show up with my guitar and do it outside of her house.... problem is though is she is seeing some one else, we were together for 5 years been broken up since august Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 thats true... i was thinking since she wants to meet up next weekend , just show up with my guitar and do it outside of her house.... problem is though is she is seeing some one else, we were together for 5 years been broken up since august Well she is seeing someone else but willing to meet up with you. I don't know what the context of her communication of this is but on the outset it seems like good stuff... Why the break up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author sheithappens Posted December 20, 2009 Author Share Posted December 20, 2009 I broke it off because she pissed me off because she was hanging with her friends alot and stuff and she also lied about getting drunk the night before , just the fact that she lied pissed me off, she didnt want to break it off , she wanted to talk about it but i took it seriously and dumped her ( i know i am an idiot) Link to post Share on other sites
Author sheithappens Posted December 20, 2009 Author Share Posted December 20, 2009 has anyone ever done it, or know someone who has? if so how did it work out? Link to post Share on other sites
selena_cat Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 (edited) here's my serenade to you No No don't you dare do it,No No No No NO NO are you actually going to go thru this? NO NO, No and definately absolutely Hell No Don't do it. Edited December 20, 2009 by selena_cat Link to post Share on other sites
Author sheithappens Posted December 21, 2009 Author Share Posted December 21, 2009 I feel that i need to do it, i guess because we only live once.... Link to post Share on other sites
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