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BobrigoSanchez

I will be talking about masturbation, so if you don't care to hear about it, please turn away.

 

 

 

 

 

Okay, here's the deal:

 

If you read my post, you'll realize I have a meeting coming up with my ex in a week. She's wants back in hardcore (the grass wasn't green enough for her, or she got rejected maybe). I'm 99% positive I will not get back together with her because she was with someone else during the monthlong break. She plays down the seriousness of what went on between her and another dude during this period, but I'm not stupid, so that's the reason I don't want to take her back. Another reason why I know I don't want her, is because after I am no longer "sexually charged", I have zero desire to get back into the relationship. This is where I would like my mind to be 100% of the time (because despite the whole 99% sure thing, my mind still goes over her time and again). To be in this state of mind though, I need to 'sturbate many times a day. This isn't a joke, I'm sorry if it sounds like one. Question is; am I sick in the head? It seems to me like I'm on my way to healing completely from her betrayal and dumping, although in a weird way.

 

Lastly, the reason I'm going to the dinner date with my ex is because I'm hoping I can make her suffer just a tad more by rejecting her to her face, like she did me. I'm not driven by revenge, it just seems like I suffered a whole lot more over this process (including being shot-down when I begged for another chance) than she did. Seems healthy to me.

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Actually this is quite common, especially if this was your first relationship that involved sex and/or you're a young guy. Hormones make us do weird stuff and think unclearly so after our basic needs are filled we tend to think more rationally.

 

Trust me, if you only think about her when you're horny, then you don't need to take her back. You'll find someone that will satisfy you both emotionally and physically.

 

You should also try to do something when the urge to masturbate comes. Try to exercise or go jogging, it will help. Maturbating so many times a day can also lead to other things, like porn addiction and impotence so backing off from it is a very good thing.

 

I hope this helped.

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Citizen Erased

Physically you're still attracted to her. That's normal.

 

You are being driven by revenge. You want to rub it in her face. That's probably normal too. Denying your motives are not.

 

Cancel the dinner date and get a hobby. Hurting her will not make up for what she did to you. If anything it will only confirm in her mind she did the right thing by breaking up with you in the first place.

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