pfeif216 Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 So i know I've mentioned this before on this site but it is now definite...i found a sick deal in a great location and i had to take it BUT he lives a block away and is dating somebody new....we ended things about 6 mos. ago and almost got back together but then he told me he didnt want an emotional attachment at that time(it sucks to know he is now attached w/ someone new).....i really have been doin SO great, im just worried about living so close to him...i mean i think it would be hard for ANYONE to see their first love w/ a new guy but i wanted to know if anyone had any thoughts/advice??? Link to post Share on other sites
fooled Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Living it right now (only it's 3 blocks). I am praying she will move when her lease is up next month. It's hard. The whole neighborhood haunts me. Link to post Share on other sites
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 DON'T DO IT!!! Take it from me. I just got dumped by my boyfriend and he lives right next door. Every effing day I have to see his car or his light on, and it drives me nuts. Call the realtor and have them find you something better somewhere else. Link to post Share on other sites
fooled Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Three things: 1) Listen to Jen. 2) Listen to Jen. 3) Listen to Jen. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Thank you Fooled! You'll make a great hubby someday! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
niko1999 Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Yeah, Jen is totally right. Youll find a "sick" deal somewhere else too. Just keep looking. The "sick" deal is not worth what it may do to your mentality. Link to post Share on other sites
fooled Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Thank you Fooled! You'll make a great hubby someday! And you - a loving and wonderful wife. Link to post Share on other sites
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Awww. Thanks. (blushing) I was one of those before. So I've got good practice for the next time. Link to post Share on other sites
UT_longhorn Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 i agree...dont do it. why even raise the chance that you will get open some old wounds. not even worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pfeif216 Posted February 7, 2006 Author Share Posted February 7, 2006 omg i wanna throw up...i already committed to it and gave my money in....i thought it was great that i was moving on and i am bound to run into him soon(im gay and everyone knows one another some how), in this city good deals are very HARD to come by and I figured running away from him is NOT the answer, i wanted to face my fears head on....its only 10 blocks from work...i thought i was gonna get support for doin it, ive mentioned it before on here and people told me to go for it....AHHH Link to post Share on other sites
fooled Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Well, babe - then it'll be a definite test - as it is for me and Jen. Make the place a fortress that you can escape to from him. Link to post Share on other sites
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Well, babe - then it'll be a definite test - as it is for me and Jen. Make the place a fortress that you can escape to from him. Or take a valium each time you leave the house. Link to post Share on other sites
fooled Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Haha - I like you more and more with every post, Jen! Xanax has been my intermittent friend lately. Link to post Share on other sites
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Just make sure your friends Xanax and Jack Daniels don't hang out together, because they don't like each other at all. Link to post Share on other sites
fooled Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Haha - thanks for the advice, Jen. I've posted in another thread that I've stopped drinking until I get my emotional legs back. And am careful not to use the Xanax as a crutch. Only when the crush of work and unpleasant ex-related surprises interfere. Link to post Share on other sites
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 8, 2006 Share Posted February 8, 2006 Only when the crush of work and unpleasant ex-related surprises interfere. Hee hee... if I did that I would be a complete pill junkie. Link to post Share on other sites
fooled Posted February 8, 2006 Share Posted February 8, 2006 we have totally gotten off topic with this thread, but you are funny jen and should move closer to good men. Link to post Share on other sites
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