upsetnhurt Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 I am trying quite hard to figure out why exactly it is so easy to give sound advice to individuals who need it yet i can't seem to live by that advice myself. Any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
thromback Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Same with me, it's probably beause you like the person. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 it is much easier to be more objective when dealing with other people's problems cause you have no emotional investment in their situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale it is much easier to be more objective when dealing with other people's problems cause you have no emotional investment in their situation. Exactly. Link to post Share on other sites
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 it is much easier to be more objective when dealing with other people's problems cause you have no emotional investment in their situation i agree 100% with this also upsetnhurt, don't worry about this as it seems to be human nature, i am exactly like you too on this one, i see other peoples relationships and can analyse them with 20/20 vision... when it comes to my own... i need a guide dog and a white stick! Link to post Share on other sites
johnnyapples Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Here Here! I'm trying to follow my own advice, but its hard. I dish out the same thing to everyone else and I help them through it -- when it comes to my personal situation, I need the same advice fed back to me by another. Its human nature. When your emotions are involved, all logic goes out the door! That's why I think your friends (and the friends of LS) are so helpful -- they remind you of what you need to be doing... Be bold, and might forces will come to your aid! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by BrainRightHeartWrong when it comes to my own... i need a guide dog and a white stick! most of us are like that BRHW. Link to post Share on other sites
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