alexa137 Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 oh my god! he responded to my facebook message i sent him earlier! he sent a message about an hr ago, it just says: hows it going nw what? how long do i wait to write back? what do i say? i want to say the best right thing! help! im so nervous, i have no idea what to say! suggestions please thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Queen of Hearts 10 Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 Well get ready for a roller coaster ! I've been on one for over a year. Write him back but play it cool. Just mirror him and don't give out to much information. Stay mysterious !! I don't know your story so I can't really help I don't know how long it's been since you've had contact with him !! Good luck at your new card game !! Queen Link to post Share on other sites
dumpedandsore Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 Well get ready for a roller coaster ! I've been on one for over a year. Write him back but play it cool. Just mirror him and don't give out to much information. Stay mysterious !! I don't know your story so I can't really help I don't know how long it's been since you've had contact with him !! Good luck at your new card game !! Queen at least he replies, mine, just blew me off completely. makes me feel like a non-human for another person to treat me so nonchalantly... Link to post Share on other sites
Nohbody Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 Stop while you are ahead. You are way too emotionally strung out over this. There is no 'perfect thing' you can write back. Take some time, compose yourself, and decide if you really need to respond to something this noncommittal. If you do so, I think you should play it cool. Do not let him see you sweat. Just my opinion, good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 Breadcrumbs Alex... That's all it is, and you deserve better. He fricken dropped off the face of the earth without explanation and went back on a dating site- any contact you initiate belittles you. Link to post Share on other sites
reimeivn Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 you can say i am fine thank you and then change your phone number. Link to post Share on other sites
thelovingkind Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 tell him to get f*cked Link to post Share on other sites
dumpedandsore Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 tell him to get f*cked ya right:cool: Link to post Share on other sites
Dblock10 Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 she contacted him, he replied. otherwise he would have stayed no contact. therefore she cant already be playing it cool. he knows she wants more by the very fact she msg'd him. meaning she still cares. he didnt. meaning he doesnt care... i would be up front, obv don't come across as obsessive or weak, but be direct and confident. Link to post Share on other sites
Author alexa137 Posted August 21, 2011 Author Share Posted August 21, 2011 i was cool- all i said was: pretty good and you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author alexa137 Posted August 21, 2011 Author Share Posted August 21, 2011 of course i didnt want to say "good", because that might sound like im great without him, but i didnt want to just say ok either, want him to just think that i still think about him im jsut curious how the dating is going, because its not going good for me yet! most of the guys i meet or talk to are crazy, want too much the first date, or just have to much baggage! we shall see how this goes, if i get a response back or not, i might not and then i REALLY know he didnt care as much as i thought Link to post Share on other sites
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