ihatehim Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Sleeping together on the 1st date.... HELP I did it Post: 1 | Quote: We've been talking for 2 mos now and finally met, we hit it off great and the chemistry was there... I was devastated when he had to leave on Sunday night to catch his plane home... Monday he emails me and says "How is your day going sweetheart?" I didn't hear from him the rest of the day nor did he call later that night... I emailed him this morning at 9:30am It's 12:10 now and I haven't gotten a reply.. Do you guys think I made a mistake sleeping with him too soon... I often times think I enjoy sex too much...I never dated in my teen yrs..I am 23 and my first love was at 18yrs old..We stayed together til I was 21.... I guess because I haven't dated I am somewhat making up for lost times...I've only had 3 lovers in my life (this current boyfriend s the 3rd one) I have morals and protect myself ...except for this time... I don't think I'm pregnant and won't even consider taking a test until my period is atleast a week late... Anyways..I am feeling as though he is palying mind games with me because I haven't heard from him... *sigh* I am just too damn emotional right now..I feel like crying though I don't regret sleeping with him... I don't love him at this point but I care about him...We've been talking for about 2 mos now...He said he wants marriage and babies with me... *Another long ~sigh~* I think I'm gonna go over across the street from my university and go to church and just sit in there and pray for a little while... This dating thing is horrible.. I ****ing hate it... Because I enjoy sex I often find myself in long term relationships...or trying to build one... Am I thinking things over a little too hard? Should I relax... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 YOU ASK: "Do you guys think I made a mistake sleeping with him too soon." Probably. That's never a good idea. But if you're looking for a relationship in order to have regular sex, why would you be worried about somebody who lives so far he has to take a plane to see you. I also don't think it's such a hot idea to be so motivated by sex. There are so many more important things to find out about a person BEFORE you hit the sack with them and screw your mind all up. Good luck on this one. I hope you will consider holding back a bit next time until you really get to know somebody in person for a while. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted November 1, 2003 Share Posted November 1, 2003 How did you meet? On the internet? Ok, so the the both of you met and had a long distance relationship for about 2 months. He came here and the both of you slept together on the first night. Then he jumped on a plane and went home. I think that you may need to relax a little, because it doesn't sound like all is lost. Maybe something came up and he couldn't call you back. I don't know if sleeping with him on the first night is a bad thing, being that you were talking for two months. It's not like you just met him and then took him home with you. Link to post Share on other sites
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