radiodarcy Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 but in addition to adding facebook to the list of places to avoid when coping with a break up -- i would strongly suggest adding dating websites to that list as well - - at least when it comes to your ex's profile. apparently my ex visited my ok cupid profile as i saw him in the list of visitors. i was able to restrain myself from going onto his actual profile and reading through it. but i sat there for several minutes pathetically staring at his profile picture. until i forced myself to log out. then i went back and stared again. and now i have a stomach ache Link to post Share on other sites
Author radiodarcy Posted March 25, 2011 Author Share Posted March 25, 2011 p.s. if anyone here is familiar with okc is there a way i can clear out the visitors page altogether? don't want to have to deal with the temptation. thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
dng Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 It's been awhile but I think you can switch it to anonymous browsing and then you won't leave an imprint on anyone's page and vice-versa, and won't have a list. Link to post Share on other sites
Author radiodarcy Posted March 29, 2011 Author Share Posted March 29, 2011 It's been awhile but I think you can switch it to anonymous browsing and then you won't leave an imprint on anyone's page and vice-versa, and won't have a list. thanks dng. i was hoping there was a way i could clear out the list altogether. but at least with anonymous browsing he won't get an ego boost from knowing if i do have a lose my willpower and visit his page. not that i plan on letting that happen Link to post Share on other sites
EmperorR Posted March 29, 2011 Share Posted March 29, 2011 I agree, my ex saw me on pof, I deleted my profile right after. But googling her username I should not have found out she's on a bunch of dating sites posting pics of her clubbing that sucked:laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Author radiodarcy Posted March 30, 2011 Author Share Posted March 30, 2011 haha.. yup.. i've stayed away from his facebook for that reason. he's big into the club scene - - not to mention a major flirt! now i guess i'll have to summon up the same willpower in not looking at his ok cupid page. it's kind of annoying because i deliberately avoided pof as i knew he would be on there *sigh* oh well - - i'm not ready to start dating anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts