Username37 Posted November 13, 2010 Share Posted November 13, 2010 "That" day = November 14th. The day my ex and I got together 2 years ago. It was a first love. It was so different and so strong. No baggage, everything was new and everything was great. Felt like it was gonna last. Then time flew by, had our ups and downs and in May she dumps me in the worst kind of way. She did it through the phone and said the typical dumper lines, which at the time comforted me....until I found LS and I realized how full of **** she was. I've been through so much since May. I remember a few threads back, I made a time line of everything that happened and i looked at it and was surprised how I survived. But that day is coming up and it's just hurting me. It's so special, to the both of us and now she's probably not giving two ****s about it, probably because she has a new boy. But for some strange reason, I have a feeling she's gonna break contact that day. ...but really, what's there to say? Happy 14th? **** no. So what so I do when "that" day comes? I know it's gonna bug me throughout the day. Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted November 13, 2010 Share Posted November 13, 2010 You say nothing Link to post Share on other sites
Leandro Posted November 13, 2010 Share Posted November 13, 2010 Don't say anything man. Talk to friends that day, go out or something. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted November 13, 2010 Share Posted November 13, 2010 It's just another day dude. If you count all the anniversaries then there won't be any days left in the year. First time you met her, first date, first kiss, first sex, first holiday together, birthday, mum's birthday, almost every day in the year is the anniversary of something. Now they are all equally meaningless. Get some mates round, a crate of beer, and a movie with lots of gratuitous violence and nudity. I recommend Death Race 2000, a classic with David Carradine and Sly Stallone! Link to post Share on other sites
stopthemadness Posted November 13, 2010 Share Posted November 13, 2010 "That" day = November 14th. The day my ex and I got together 2 years ago. It was a first love. It was so different and so strong. No baggage, everything was new and everything was great. Felt like it was gonna last. Then time flew by, had our ups and downs and in May she dumps me in the worst kind of way. She did it through the phone and said the typical dumper lines, which at the time comforted me....until I found LS and I realized how full of **** she was. I've been through so much since May. I remember a few threads back, I made a time line of everything that happened and i looked at it and was surprised how I survived. But that day is coming up and it's just hurting me. It's so special, to the both of us and now she's probably not giving two ****s about it, probably because she has a new boy. But for some strange reason, I have a feeling she's gonna break contact that day. ...but really, what's there to say? Happy 14th? **** no. So what so I do when "that" day comes? I know it's gonna bug me throughout the day. Ya its gona be hard but dont do or say anything. Shes moved on my brokenhearted friend and so should you. My ex is seeing someone else and it sucks! Ive met someone too but only a few weeks ago. Weve met a few times hes a nice man, but I want to take it VERY slow. I know Iam not over my ex and dont want to ruin this in case this guy turns out to be someone special. So ya dont call, email ,text or anything on that day. Go have a drink(smile) good luck.... Link to post Share on other sites
paleblue Posted November 13, 2010 Share Posted November 13, 2010 Do something that makes You feel good that day Link to post Share on other sites
Author Username37 Posted November 14, 2010 Author Share Posted November 14, 2010 Thanks for the advice everyone. If I didn't find this website, God knows what would've happened to me. Right now, I'm listening to some good Ol Simon and Garfunkel. Frickin love the Boxer haha Link to post Share on other sites
Author Username37 Posted November 15, 2010 Author Share Posted November 15, 2010 Ughh, I'm hurting now. Today, she was on my mind all day. I was wondering if she remembered or even cared. Seems like she doesn't. Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted November 15, 2010 Share Posted November 15, 2010 Ughh, I'm hurting now. Today, she was on my mind all day. I was wondering if she remembered or even cared. Seems like she doesn't. I care, Username37. I care. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Username37 Posted November 15, 2010 Author Share Posted November 15, 2010 I care, Username37. I care. I'm glad that you do. Not many do care about my situation. It's surprising that the people who care are people that I never met before. Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted November 15, 2010 Share Posted November 15, 2010 I'm glad that you do. Not many do care about my situation. It's surprising that the people who care are people that I never met before. We're all experiencing similar things. We're all still healing and trying to move on. Specific dates hold meaning to us. Yesterday is was three months to the day since my ex broke up with me. That date mattered. I wonder every day if she still cares. For you the date that matters is 11/14. Did your ex think about you? She probably did. But what would have happened if she'd contacted you? She wouldn't have asked to get back together with you, she has a BF. It would just have opened up the old wounds more than now. Link to post Share on other sites
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