sacg Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 Hi Guys, been a while since i last posted here, some of you may remember me and my story, for those that don't, probably best to read back on a few. Ive posted this here as I don't know who to speak to about this and at the very least you guys have an understanding of the emotions we go through. Its been just over 2 years since I split with the woman i loved, and for 18 months it was a nightmare roller coaster ride. The last 6 calmed down slightly and we've been in NC now for, i know, pathetic really, 3.5 weeks. Whilst i miss her and think of her much, im nowhere hear the place i was in. My dilemma is this. My best mate off 20 years gets married on Friday, she, the ex, is a bridesmaid. The bride originally didn't want me to go thinking I would cause trouble, (which i would not, if anything it may hurt me), and things have been a little awkward to say the least round this event. Ive felt almost ostracised. I really want to go, as its my mates wedding and all my friends and previous friends are going to be there. But i am scared that Im not quite ready for seeing her in that environment. I feel strong enough, but I don't want to set myself back. Its going to be awkward enough considering we haven't spoke in over 3 weeks anyway, and I don't know how to approach that either. Any thoughts or comments would be very welcome. Cheers Link to post Share on other sites
Author sacg Posted July 21, 2010 Author Share Posted July 21, 2010 FFS! Guys...IT'S FRIDAY! Any comments at all..? Link to post Share on other sites
GrayClouds Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 (edited) What does your mate tell you? If he is a smart man he will side with the wife to be, if he does not I know a good lawyer... Since the bride does not want you to go, it give you the classy high road by not going, it is the generous thing to do, and save yourself a real kick in the nut sack (the EX who your struggling to get over @ one of the most emotional and romantic venue possible AUGHHHHHHHHhhhhhhh). My gut says do not go. If you do, arrive exactly on time, sit in back leave first, and do not go to the reception but only if you really, really wanting that kick in the nut sack. I say stay at home and drop heavy object on your crotch instead, it will be slight more entertaining and a whole lot less painful. And this way you do not have to buy a present, tell your mate your staying home to make the bride happy is it. Edited July 21, 2010 by GrayClouds Link to post Share on other sites
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