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Old 7th March 2019, 6:13 PM   #31
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How's that supposed to work exactly? Next time she's in a serious relationship with a guy who stays over a lot, and with whom she sees a potential future, she should say "Sorry I don't trust any guys after what happened last time so no key for you?"

If losing the ability to trust a significant other in a relationship because of prior bad experiences is "learning" then I for one don't want to go back to school.

Yep, this was a learning experience, $400 dollar plus heartache. The sharing of keys should be withheld for much longer than OP expected...not a thing wrong with that.
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Old 7th March 2019, 6:18 PM   #32
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The sharing of keys should be withheld for much longer than OP expected

How do you know the Ops key sharing withholding wasn't long enough?
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Old 7th March 2019, 6:23 PM   #33
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^ Because turns out he was a tool and wouldn't return her stuff and keys.
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Old 7th March 2019, 6:28 PM   #34
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^ Because turns out he was a tool and wouldn't return her stuff and keys.

Yep, ten characters.


Glad that you have this resolved OP.

Better days to come.
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Old 7th March 2019, 6:29 PM   #35
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^ Because turns out he was a tool and wouldn't return her stuff and keys.

That can happen after a 10 month or 10 year relationship.



It's about the person not the tenure.
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Old 7th March 2019, 6:45 PM   #36
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Regarding the original OP, it's about the keys/locks and the disregard for leaving the keys on the counter when leaving or returning calls regarding...the keys.



The lesson has already been taught through ignored calls and cost $.

How does a person know? My guess is the OP has had reservations about this guy (hence the key ceremony) for a time but threw caution to the wind in hopes of what people in love hope for against their better judgement.



Love is not bound with keys, lol, especially in a secured building where others are effected.
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