freedomandlove Posted March 8, 2019 Share Posted March 8, 2019 Hi guys! She send me an sms and I wondering what does it mean... this is my story: https://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/676688-me-my-ex-gf-kissed-passionately-than Just to give you a quick recap: She broke up with me after 1 year and a half. We are not going out with other people at the moment. I begged for a while. We met few times after the break up and she kissed me. One night I was drunk and I wrote her a lot of messages than she blocked me. 15 days later I sent her flowers and I wrote her a letter in which I thanked her for everything and I stated that it will be strange to be strangers again. The very next day she sent me an sms where she told me she hadn’t changed her mind and that she will be distant for a little while, up to the point she will know I’m over her… Then she told me that even if we are no on the same line, we are not strangers… What does she mean? Is she hoping for a friendship? Is she just trying to move on? Is it that she just love me and she is not in love with me? Am I her backup? Anyway I told her we can’t be friends and we will never be… She didn’t reply back! Thanks for your opinion! Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted March 8, 2019 Share Posted March 8, 2019 I think she means that you two won't necessarily be distant forever, and you might be able to resume a friendship someday. For now, she wants space from you since she knows she doesn't feel the same way you do and doesn't want to give you false hope. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author freedomandlove Posted March 8, 2019 Author Share Posted March 8, 2019 I think she means that you two won't necessarily be distant forever, and you might be able to resume a friendship someday. For now, she wants space from you since she knows she doesn't feel the same way you do and doesn't want to give you false hope. It's pretty strange that she hopes for a friendship someday... She is still my best friend, but I can see her just as my girlfriend! Could it be that she is doing this because she is moving away slowly? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted March 8, 2019 Share Posted March 8, 2019 No, she has already moved away. She's doing this to make sure you don't harbour any resentment towards her. That's all. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted March 8, 2019 Share Posted March 8, 2019 It's pretty strange that she hopes for a friendship someday... She is still my best friend, but I can see her just as my girlfriend! Could it be that she is doing this because she is moving away slowly? I don't think she's actively hoping for a friendship, to be clear. What I mean is that I think she doesn't want there to be bad blood, and if you two crossed paths, you could be on friendly terms. Link to post Share on other sites
sandman1 Posted March 9, 2019 Share Posted March 9, 2019 it doesnt matter what the strangers thing meant, what matters is that she broke up with you. if i was you i wouldnt talk to her and just transform into a new person, thats all you can do. Link to post Share on other sites
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