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Hey, i was dumped on the 23rd of december after a 2 year relatonship last year as my ex fell out of attraction and said she didnt love me, i went no contact for 2 weeks until we met up for cuddles and sex, weve metup 3 times this months just for sex which i was ok with but still felt a bit weird, we talked last sat on the phone and she said it probs best we move on, but she still has feelings for me, but i have noticed that she has been logging onto my facebook nearly every single day since the breakup, sometimes 3 times a day, she found out i went to the beach with another girl yesterday and she kept demanding to know if we kissed, which i eventually told the truth that we didnt, but besides that she was trying to play it off cool, but now ive noticed she has logged in 4 times in 6 hours just to check on this person, i know i should change my password but its kind of a comfort that she keeps checkin on me and i couldnt give a **** about privacy (thats just how i am) now up to the main part, what would cause a dumper to keep checking like this if she doesnt want a relationship? (This was my first relationship so dont hate on my mistakes lol :p)

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CautiouslyOptimistic

Well, it is probably because she still has feelings for you. She even told you that with her own mouth.

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She doesn't want to be in a relationship with you but wants to keep you "on the hook" until she finds someone else that she DOES want to be with.

 

Change your password. You deserve better.

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Well, it is probably because she still has feelings for you. She even told you that with her own mouth.

 

True, although she is also the one saying we should move on? Weird :laugh:

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