bryan1282 Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 after a break up is it possible for the 2 people to move on with there love lives and continue to be good friends??? such as jerry and elaine on seinfeld???? i know its only a show but just wanted to use that as an example. Link to post Share on other sites
soccorsilly Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 Sure. I speak with most of my ex GFs and my ex wife. It is rare that there is animosity. I do suggest that after the breakup, you take 6 months or so to recover and get yourself back on your feet, but after that, shoot an email and just say hi and it shold not be a problem! Link to post Share on other sites
smile95 Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 not anytime soon-just tried that! I would wait a while...as above staed six months or so after the feelings fade. Link to post Share on other sites
zena Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 i agree with Beth i have tried the "just friends" for the past 2 months but when the love is still there, it doesnt work Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 Originally posted by soccorsilly I do suggest that after the breakup, you take 6 months or so to recover and get yourself back on your feet, but after that, shoot an email and just say hi and it shold not be a problem! Perfect advice .. Link to post Share on other sites
fundamental Posted July 18, 2005 Share Posted July 18, 2005 Originally posted by bryan1282 after a break up is it possible for the 2 people to move on with there love lives and continue to be good friends??? such as jerry and elaine on seinfeld???? i know its only a show but just wanted to use that as an example. I'm in the process of trying the "friends with ex" thing right now. We actually tried to stay friends right after everything ended...and so far...although we haven't had any arguments, it's not working. Everytime we hang out, we start to get closer knowing that a 2nd time around will not work until we resolve the issues from the break up. Link to post Share on other sites
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