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Old 25th March 2018, 3:54 PM   #1
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Text from girl after 3/4 years...

Really random but I dated a girl for a few months, years ago. Last night I got a drunk text from her in the early hours of the morning. Nothing bad, just saying hope I’m well. I didn’t respond until the afternoon just saying that was random, blah blah blah, few more messages just laughing about it and then didn’t reply. She sent another saying hopefully she doesn’t drunk text again.

I’m in a great relationship now and have been for nearly two years but just wondered what that was all about, didn’t even have her number saved and was surprised she had mine.

Just wondered if anyone else had experience with this and what it’s all about?

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Old 25th March 2018, 4:08 PM   #2
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Old 25th March 2018, 4:56 PM   #3
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Nostalgia + booze.

Just block that number
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Old 25th March 2018, 5:07 PM   #4
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Probably just wanted the D.... ;-)

At least she "thinks," of you if that's important to you but I wouldn't reach too much into it.
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Old 16th May 2018, 9:32 PM   #5
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I drunk text random people all the time. After this much time I wouldn't think anything of it.
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Old 17th May 2018, 6:55 PM   #6
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I drunk text random people all the time. After this much time I wouldn't think anything of it.
hmmm really ?
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Old 17th May 2018, 6:57 PM   #7
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She was putting feelers out. If you care about your current relationship, I'd block her.
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Old 17th May 2018, 7:05 PM   #8
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She was putting feelers out. If you care about your current relationship, I'd block her.
agreed.

No one would drunk text after 4 years after such a brief relationship unless there was some substance behind it.

Unless you dumped her really badly or something, sometimes dumpees like to make a cameo appearance to show how well they moved on
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Old 17th May 2018, 10:50 PM   #9
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hmmm really ?
Yep! I'm a happy nice drunk, so it's always about how great they are, and how they are a good person. Sometimes a compliment, etc.

Okay they arent random, but friends/acquaintances in my contact list.

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