bagjas Posted December 29, 2017 Share Posted December 29, 2017 hello .. me and my ex dated for 7 months i was her rebound i know i did a huge mistake . she was in a bad depression, i was for her all the time and i treated her very well , things were pretty fine for the first 3 months then suddenly she gets close to another girl ( her best friend now ) and she started to avoid me later on she started to treat me like dirt and i was a dumbass and accepted it because of the fear of losing her ( i think this was my life mistake) and she started to make jokes of me with her bestfriend we study together at the same colle and i can’t avoid her because we are at the same major she dumped me 8 months ago and she was real mean and disrespectful to me and ended up saying im not man enough for her ( i blocked her then and didn’t contact her till now and i will never do that ) i have never been hurt the way she hurt me and i can never forget what she did to me i was really good with her what hurts more that she is really loved person and the reason im writing this post is i was with a group of people and they talked about her and how a good person she is tl;dr; i have been treated like dirt from her but she never did anything bad to anyone except me which makes the pain 100 worse than the pain she caused me all i did was loving her and never mistreated her once why me ? thanks 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Msday91 Posted December 30, 2017 Share Posted December 30, 2017 You were good to her and she should be regretting losing you. You need to forget about her, she was a lesson learnt and you will find someone better. Link to post Share on other sites
Akashsingh Posted December 31, 2017 Share Posted December 31, 2017 hello .. me and my ex dated for 7 months i was her rebound i know i did a huge mistake . she was in a bad depression, i was for her all the time and i treated her very well , things were pretty fine for the first 3 months then suddenly she gets close to another girl ( her best friend now ) and she started to avoid me later on she started to treat me like dirt and i was a dumbass and accepted it because of the fear of losing her ( i think this was my life mistake) and she started to make jokes of me with her bestfriend we study together at the same colle and i can’t avoid her because we are at the same major she dumped me 8 months ago and she was real mean and disrespectful to me and ended up saying im not man enough for her ( i blocked her then and didn’t contact her till now and i will never do that ) i have never been hurt the way she hurt me and i can never forget what she did to me i was really good with her what hurts more that she is really loved person and the reason im writing this post is i was with a group of people and they talked about her and how a good person she is tl;dr; i have been treated like dirt from her but she never did anything bad to anyone except me which makes the pain 100 worse than the pain she caused me all i did was loving her and never mistreated her once why me ? thanks You sound way too young to me. Out perform her in studies. Get an award or something and more importantly, get a new girl thats twice as pretty. You wont regret it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted December 31, 2017 Share Posted December 31, 2017 bagjas, You sound like a very nice chap with a lot to offer the right women, but sometimes we can all be too nice for our own good. Your ex sounds like an unstable, manipulative, b**** who used you as a "shoulder to cry on" and you don't need her validation. You did the right thing to block her, so keep her blocked. If you see her at college just blank her and concentrate on your studies. Get qualified, get a good job, get a nice car, a nice flat (apartment) and get a good life without her in it. Good luck x Link to post Share on other sites
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