rie39 Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 Hello I was wondering if someone can just help me understand why my ex is behaving like this. Is he trying to communicate that he doesn't want me ever again or is he trying to make me feel bad for the breakup or being genuine that he feels he doesn't want to find love again, or what? n't want Ex has been sending a lot of messages saying how he thinks he's awkward with women, and that no woman will understand him because he has problems being sensitive and angry. He says it'll just be him focusing on himself, needing no one else. Saying no woman will accept him, that he is weird and full of flaws. Why is he saying all this? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 He sounds...like a very strange person. I have an ex who was very emotionally unstable, and would say things like that as a means of manipulating me into telling me that he's wrong, he's great and I loved him, blah blah blah (didn't work, I never responded the way he wanted) Why are you allowing him to send you messages like this? Link to post Share on other sites
TopsyLove Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 It sounds like maybe he's looking for feedback. Maybe he thinks you knew him well enough to tell him how he can improve himself to be a better match for women. He could be wondering if it's OK to ask you or if you'd be uncomfortable or jealous. In the end, just say 'why are you asking? I can give a better answer if you tell me what you're wanting to hear.' Link to post Share on other sites
HarmonyDriven Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 Very strange indeed..... How long has it been since you broke up? Did you do no contact? When did he start sending these texts? Was it a mutual break up? or did you break up because he is awkward, too sensitive, gets angry, is weird and full of flaws? Based on the info provided thus far, I cannot tell if he is venting or wants your advice? Either way, is this what you want? Contact from the ex-boyfriend? Link to post Share on other sites
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