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Old 1st January 2015, 3:32 AM   #1
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10 month vent.

It's been a year almost. I don't even know what to type. I've been kidding myself, I've been waiting and waiting for you to contact me just ploughing through the days, deep down I knew you never would which is safer for us both I guess. I hope you and your family are doing well . I hoped christmas/new years you would message me but never counted on it, just secretly wished you would.

I let you leave without argument or fight, because your happiness was key to me, I honestly hope you've found happiness with yourself, it just kills me to think we'll never talk again. I need to move on and accept our breakup but it's just so hard.

10 months have passed I think? I miss your voice and everything that that made me feel alive. You're a princess, I love and miss you dearly.

(sorry i just felt like i needed to get that off my chest)
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Old 1st January 2015, 7:36 AM   #2
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I'm at sixteen months and at ten I was still lost and upset.

Eventually you will get there. You will realize you don't remember her
voice any longer. You don't remember names of her nephews and cousins. Then
you will realize that even if you heard her voice you would not
know what to do with her. You would consider it irrelevant to your life and ttaking her
back would be too much of a hassle.

And then you will be OK. But you have to go through the panic attack.

No way around. We are rooting for you.
The dumper will never hurt the way they made you hurt - but on the other hand they have to live without forgiveness, validation, or a new rationalization for what they've done.
That is a special kind of hell. Reserved for those special few.
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