towardthefuture Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Ex GF of 8 years finalized moving out today. She dropped her keys off in the office at ~9 AM. When I went down there an hour later, they told me that she told them she knocked on my door to give them to me but I didn't answer. This is after 1 month of her not speaking to me or responding to anything I sent her (I haven't sent her anything except a mistake voice mail a few days ago and a 'I'm moving on' email around 10 days ago). I'm kind of glad I was asleep still when she knocked, I'm not ready to see her. I don't know if she has a boyfriend now or what, the breakup was very sudden (not sudden for her, sudden for me), after 8 years it could go either way -- instant replacement/overlapping or waiting a while to date. Honestly I don't really want to know, but I suspect she jumped into another relationship right away. Still, does the fact that she tried to see me mean anything? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Elle1975 Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Well, she tries to give you the keys, not seeing you per say. I suppose if she really had wanted to see you, she would have called or would have come back later. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 It could but you seem to be in a good spot without knowing. Just keep moving on. Important answers will come of you're receptive. Take it from someone who has had the worst happen. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Apply strict no contact as if your life depends on it. Anything else leads to pain. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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