gustavo777 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 the birthday of my ex is coming soon, should i give her a call ? she called me on my birthday Link to post Share on other sites
Mi7522 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 I wouldn't do anything unless you're prepared for getting the resonse you don't want to hear. I sent my ex one and wish I never did looking back on it. You're broken up so you owe her nothing anymore. Treat as just another day and be happy. You'll thank yourself later 2 Link to post Share on other sites
6Pack Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 I agree; if this person is resisting any effort to get back together, then I would say do not wish her a happy birthday. My ex's birthday was in October, and I intentionally did not wish her a happy birthday. I did not check her page or anything. The only thing I saw about her was that a mutual friend on FB changed her Main Picture to be a photo of the two of them (an older photo). But beyond that, I have no idea what she did, etc. I feel like I sent a strong message by not wishing her happy birthday. I know she felt that. I also did not wish her happy thanksgiving. You have to focus on yourself and building a new life, a better life, without them. You find a new life with better people and better experiences (even though that may seem tough to find at first). Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 I think it does depend. If you are not over her and she has not been initiating contact with substance for a while, then absolutely no way. If you are in constant contact and trying to work things out and they are progressing, then ok. Link to post Share on other sites
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