tikay00 Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 Holy crap, I was her emotional tampon during the whole time!!! Obviously it was a real, and loving relationship, but you look back, and think to yourself, "dear God, I've had to comfort this girl like 3x out of the week!" Link to post Share on other sites
mops Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 I feel like that. Only it was a guy, and I've been comforting him...daily!! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author tikay00 Posted October 16, 2014 Author Share Posted October 16, 2014 I feel like that. Only it was a guy, and I've been comforting him...daily!! Oh God, I couldn't even imagine the type of husband he'd be. How was your day honey? "How was my day!? How was my day!?" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
me85 Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 (edited) When I rarely look back on my last RS, I realize that my ex never loved me. I try not to look back on that particular RS because it was the best and the worst. Which completely messed me up emotionally for a long time. Really, when I'm over my exes, I never look back. Everyone should try their best NOT to look back at their past RSs unless it was a fairly good one and there wasn't a lot pain involved. Edited October 16, 2014 by me85 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Natsu21 Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 Looking back on it, I honestly think my ex settled for me cause the guys she really wanted wasn't checking her(i.e. atheletes) Once she got that, though, I was history. Regardless, I have no regrets, except one...why did I continue a long distance relationship? That was dumb of me. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 I still look back and can't believe how long I was unhappy in my marriage and why I stayed as long as I did. It boggles my mind sometimes. I really hate to use the word "wasted" but sometimes I do look back on all those years as wasted years because I was so unhappy. Who knows what my life would have been like had I left earlier...when I was younger Thankfully I'm a believer that everything happens for a reason which has helped me work through any bitterness that might have festered otherwise. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nathaniel Hawk Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 Yes. And I feel quite sorry for her future partners. It's going to be quite tiring and annoying. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
True Gent Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 When I rarely look back on my last RS, I realize that my ex never loved me. I try not to look back on that particular RS because it was the best and the worst. Which completely messed me up emotionally for a long time. Really, when I'm over my exes, I never look back. Everyone should try their best NOT to look back at their past RSs unless it was a fairly good one and there wasn't a lot pain involved. I know exactly what you mean about your relationship being the best and the worst. I feel like that about mine, it was really great in many ways. I experienced things with her that I've never experienced before. However the good stuff is tainted by being left for someone else and being treated like crap after such a long time together. I do not look back on it, nor do I want to. If I am honest about it I was an emotional and financial Rock for her during the whole relationship. It wasn't two ways like it should be. Link to post Share on other sites
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