Iamyoungjuan Posted July 3, 2014 Share Posted July 3, 2014 Me and my wife have been together for 10 years married for 5 we have 4 kids together we do not fight at all we dissagree and argue like any other couple but over the years she always breakup with me and leave for days and weeks and then wanna get back together I dont understand why she does this Can anyone help me out here with some advice Link to post Share on other sites
lauri Posted July 3, 2014 Share Posted July 3, 2014 Me and my wife have been together for 10 years married for 5 we have 4 kids together we do not fight at all we dissagree and argue like any other couple but over the years she always breakup with me and leave for days and weeks and then wanna get back together I dont understand why she does this Can anyone help me out here with some advice Can you explain a bit more about your situation? It could be simply because she is losing interest in you...I need a bit more information to give you an opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted July 3, 2014 Share Posted July 3, 2014 I agree. One paragraph isn't enough to go on, dude. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted July 3, 2014 Share Posted July 3, 2014 I read your other threads. This has been going on since April 2013?!?! For goodness sake, what is this doing to your four children? And after all this leaving and coming and going and staying, your recent thread you were talking about how you both were planning on another child? Is anyone, someone in your family, you, your wife -- comprehend how this affects your kids? You both are so caught up in your dysfunction that you can't even look past yourselves and your own selfish drama and commit to providing stability and security for these kids. This is absolutely insane. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Doubtsforever Posted July 3, 2014 Share Posted July 3, 2014 Simple: cause you let her. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Eivuwan Posted July 3, 2014 Share Posted July 3, 2014 Why don't you ask your wife? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Elle1975 Posted July 3, 2014 Share Posted July 3, 2014 Me and my wife have been together for 10 years married for 5 we have 4 kids together we do not fight at all we dissagree and argue like any other couple but over the years she always breakup with me and leave for days and weeks and then wanna get back together I dont understand why she does this Can anyone help me out here with some advice Not a lot of people understand the bond between two married people, and they understand even less the bond created after having kids together. Sometimes you will hear "she is the mother of my kids" and people brush that off. They shouldn't. That's probably why she comes back to you. Another reason could be related to finances. Can she make it on her own? If the answer is no, that could explain her return. Now I'd like to know, did she give you any reasons as for why she leaves? Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted July 4, 2014 Share Posted July 4, 2014 Why don't you ask your wife? THIS. Have you asked your wife????? It really is THAT simple. She has the answer(s) you are seeking. Ask her. Link to post Share on other sites
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